The mind of a messed up person

Control

Control
Everyone wants it
Some are born with it
Some have to create ways
So they control their life
Their feelings
Their actions
Their body
Their hair
Their appearance
But for others that's not enough
Some want to control others too
So they become teachers
Politicians
Kings and queens
Presidents
Even parents
Others become lovers
They find someone
Fall in love
And start to control their lovers
Things like their life
Their feelings
Their actions
Their body
Their hair
Their appearance
But their just trying to help
They just want you to be the best you can be
Sometimes they help in weird ways though
Their help through names
Comments
Jokes
Insults
Bruises
Sometimes it doesn't feel like helping
It feels like hurting
But they love you
So why would hurt you
Some say it's not right
But why would they not want help you
I mean there's so many things to fix
that's what lover used to say
Your just overreacting
He'd say
I love you he'd say
I love you too, I'm sorry
That's how lovers find control
But that's normal
Right?