City Fool // Spam book

Getting serious

Ok, I wasn't going to post anything about this but I feel like it has to be said because people on this app can be very immature and not handle situations well at all.

Firstly, I want to start off by saying YES I left because other people on this app made me feel like shit everyday, they posted things about me to "expose" me, they outed my mistakes to other people when for starters it was NONE of their business and neither was it any of their followers business so I don't understand why they thought it was ok. I don't understand how someone can sit behind a screen and screenshot EVERY single one of your mistakes to post it out to the world when they have no right to. I don't understand how someone's can make a hate account and post awful and horrible things about someone but yet some people think it's ok because they have "proof" of how much of a horrible person I am.

It's disgusting.

I hope the people that made my life on Wattpad a living hell feel so bad about themselves and thought of how their actions actually DID have consequences. I left Wattpad because they made me crumble and just made me feel like utter shit and like I was the problem when actually I really wasn't.

To all these hats accounts, not just mine but ANY hats accounts: How can you sit there and spew some horrible crap about someone that may or may not be true just because you hate them? How can you sit there and tell someone to kill themselves? It's disgusting and you shouldn't be saying things like that. Why do you have to spread negativity to ruin someone else's day when they've done absolutely nothing to you?

Also, how can you just publicize someone else's mistakes when you know you aren't perfect at all and you know how SHIT you would feel when someone publicizes your mistakes too. It's wrong and it's mean and shouldn't be done AT ALL.

THINK BEFORE TOU PUBLISH SOMETHING THAT COULD MAKE OTHERS FEEL HORRIBLE ABPIT THEMSELVES.

Put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about how they would feel about your hurtful words and your immature actions. Just because you hate or dislike someone does NOT mean you should "expose" them or even encourage others to hate on them. That goes out to every single person reading this, because I know people can get in fights and I know people can say things they don't mean at all but is posting it to make them look bad and for you to look like a fucking saint really make you a good person? In my eyes it DOESN'T. You can spread positivity and all that but piblicizing someone else's mistakes or creating a hate account to make others feel horrible does not make you a good person.

People fight and that's normal because not everyone is going to get along, it's sad but it's life and if I'm being straight forward sometimes you have to get used to that thinking method. You can't please everyone because some people will have opposing views and they will clash, you have to deal with those situations maturely. A lot of those situations where people clash aren't handled properly and someone's or both people end up getting hurt and more arguments arise and someone is left feeling like utter shit about themselves because someone else has made them feel so little about themselves because they got their friends or dole lovers or other people involved with a situation where they shouldn't have been involved in and that's what makes Wattpad so toxic. That's what CAN make people leave Wattpad. I'm not saying everyone does but it can happen.

Have you guys never heard of suicide? Reading someone down so much can lead to a consequence as serious as suicide because you made that certain person feel so bad about themselves and so hurt that they felt like their only way out of the situation would be to kill themselves. Now, how would you feel if you were the REASON someone killed themselves? You'd feel really fucking shitty about yourself wouldn't you? Take that into account before you think of posting something up about someone or even making an entire hate account towards them.

It's a real consequence that can happen...

You DON'T know what others are going through. They only put out what they want others to know but behind a screen, even on Wattpad they could be going through a lot outside of here. No one is happy all the time, people can hurt and people can feel angry. It's human emotions. Don't take your anger or hurt out on anyone else though because they really don't deserve that and it's a shitty thing to do.

Want to handle a situation properly? ACTUALLY y'all go the person privately instead of publishing everything publicly where others can get involved and don't you dare turn around and say "I don't/didn't want others to get involved" when you post things publicly because that's complete bullshit and even you know that...think before you act, think before you speak and put yourself in the other person's shoes...

Handle the situation as maturely as possible and stop piblicizing everything....not to blunt but most of the time people don't fucking care about drama but people also LOVE to get involved in drama and sometimes they can get TOO involved and involuntarily tear someone else down and you know what that leads to? People piblicizing more mistakes that people make because everyone loves the drama and it's the only way they feel they can actually get attention or followers and it's really horrible. Don't please others by reading someone else down because it's negative and just disgusting behaviour...

THINK ABOUT OTHERS FOR ONCE INSTEAD OF THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF. Maybe then Wattpad will actually be a better place and people won't feel so scared or uncomfortable to ACTUALLY be themselves and to post halters and stories in peace without feeling like someone is about to tear them down or comment negativity...

It's really toxic....

So do something about it and don't let someone else be toxic towards someone else...

Comment about how wrong it is to publicise someone else's mistakes, comment how wrong it is to make someone a hate account. Don't just report the hate account but report the chapters or stories people make that will make someone else feel horrible...you know all of these mentioned can be a form of harassment and/or bullying...

Think about that before you think of posting too...

That's it before I even bore myself with this...

It's the only serious chapter I will be making about these situations I've send on Wattpad. Take my advice, don't take my advice it's really your choice but DON'T sit there and do these things and then yell at someone else for doing them to someone else or to you because it's hypocritical and maybe you could learn to put others first and their emotions before yourself and your emotions.

That's it from me. Feel free to have your opinion on these topics, I know they're serious but they needed to be said to make people see that there ARE consequences to anything they put online because things online are PERMANENT and can have PERMANENT EFFECTS!

Thanks for coming to my ted talk!

- Mollie xox