Unspoken Words.

Communication

Communicate, even with your silence you can speak a million words and silence communicates millions of feelings. But sometimes talking is all it needs. Even when you are at your worst try to just calm yourselves and know what are you saying is worth it and you actually thought about it before saying it out loud to the person. Distance never matters to speak out your feelings and things that makes you uncomfortable or frustrated. It never occurs to you that maybe that person needed to tell me this or should I have told him/her this.

You only start a conversation in your mind which you never win because your conscience never lets you win it'll always tell you or even better show you practical things of that specific situation. So always before speaking the words let conscience glance at your phrase/words before letting it out. Agreed sometimes practicality never works that time just let your heart talk because at the end of the day only heart and soul knows how much hurt and sadness it has tolerated due to this practicality shit. Your mind never thinks of heart at point of some situations.

So now the question is, "Is heart or mind which is best at taking decisions?"

A really difficult and very age old question to be honest, which remains unanswered till date.

Some will say yes we can but, just wait for a second there and rewind all your life's biggest and most toughest decisions you have ever taken by you.

It'll be shared by both mind and heart even your decision of getting married or becoming parent or getting a job anything; there will be fair share of mind giving its reason and opinion in every situation where heart has taken up a decision likewise it goes for heart also. Every person goes for both of them's opinion and always finds themself in most frustrating battle ever. So just give it time it'll obviously get better. When you give time for certain things they start to become clear and that will let you know what decision you have to take. Don't take decisions in rush, they always cuase damage not just to you but also the people who surround you.

At times some people can be indecisive. They just don't know what they want and let the other best person decide for them or they just agree with what others are saying, even when both their heart and mind are not in peace or are not agreeing them; why?

just because they are not capable of taking up a decision. Or you just don't want to hurt others by your decision.

This happens most of the time with people who want to keep others like who surround them always happy which in turn leads them to get hurt, broken and sometimes tortured too. They keep breaking themselves whenever a decision made by others just because their mind is not set on one thing and atlast who is to suffer, them or you? suffer for what reason?As those people will be leading their life normally it is you who is suffering and breaking bit by bit and noone is to know, why all this pain and suffering?

Can't we for once buckle up and give our decision out rather than lettig someone else hold onto our life's steer?

They say things or situation only has either upper or lower surface, but what about the middle surface who is to know the middle surface or which in terms of psychology called as sub conscious mind to know. Even what abot the deeper layers that has been formed by your heart which never lets you get out of your little hole?

Every person out there has two sides to them; one which is known to world and another which is only to them and is their actual personality. This inner side of every other person only wants to exxplode when ever they feel like they are being caged or trapped by their own mind.

At situation and times like this try to take deep breath by closing your eyes and try to do it atleast threee times, it'll surely make a difference or you can even close your eyes and take a deep breath and exhale it by counting numbers backwards fromm10- 0 which will surely make your mind calm down from the chaos irt has been going through last some minutes.

Communication with a calm and peaceful mind is all thaata needs to sort out a situation rather than just making your voices louder to prove yourselves correct which is not going to make you win a arguement.

Always try communicating and saying your feeling out loud it'll help.

Thank you for listening to my rant.