Unspoken Words.

Emotional Pain

Ah, such a devastating topic. When you get a prick of needle, when stub your foot against the door, whenn your ice-cream kisses the ground rather than your lips without even you taking a taste of it, such cruel things to happen.

Right?

The sadness that looms due to this is nothing compared to the pain that you feel when you lose a person who meant the world to you and couldn't even say a last goodbye.

Pain, it is always different from one person to another, from one situation to another, from one minute to another. Pain can always either worsen to hell or get you better to heaven, which means pain can either motivate your inner creative talent to come out or it'll destroy you to core. It all depends on you.

Yes, it all comes down to your mind, your heart, your soul. Pain can be both physical and emotional but let me tell you one thing, they are always inter-connected to each other. As emotional pain can surely cause you physical pain and physical pain can easily take a toll upon your emotional sense.

Damn, we can never really use the phrase of "Yes, I feel it too" because that always makes us feel still more sad and painful thinking that the opposite person has felt the same pain but no amount of pain and the way it is felt by each and every person is unique to other. For instance, you can " sure I cannot unnderstand how you feel but I can surely try to cheer you up and support you in this." Now this would work very well for annyone in any matter. Let me also remind you pain is totally different from grief. Here I'm only speaking about Pain.

Let's break it down to small events then talk it to big issues. Small evennts as in when you are kid, for you pain is, someone taking away your favourite chocolate or pencil or even not talking or giving you the attention for few minutes. But just like age, pain also grows along with your age. As you grow to become old the definition/ meaning of the pain also starts changing for you. Now for you pain erupts only from emotional situations that occur between your family, your friends and your surrounding.

For at the age of say 12, if your friend doesn't come to school even just for a day then it is a kind of pain, you don't know how to explain, you feel empty. But in some other part of the world, somewhere same age kid, is in emotional pain because he sees his mother crying daily when he is locked in room. He doesn't know what is happening outside in hall but he can hear his father shouting, screamin, he hears smacking sounds and then the door closing with loud thud.

Now, both kids are of same age, but stay in complete opposite sides of world with fully different definitions of pain. So we must always remember to not judge any person based on how they behave or talk as we really don't know what they have been through. Emotional pain can sometimes be visible like some people show it in their face through being sad, depressed, gloomy look, not interested in talking or doing anything remotely fun. So you can atleast guess that person is sad, he needs emotional support, but in some cases in which I may say many people now-a-days do is showing off nothing is wrong like their life is at the best point everything around is good they are happy at the moment. If you ever get the chance of actually glancing into that inner soul of theirs, you will hear nothing but loud wailing cries. As they are in so much pain they can't even say it or express it but there is still a bright smile on their face freely talking to others.

Now the real question, will it ever be worth it?

I mean, like acting we are normal to others who are our friends, family when they don't even suspect or hear the pleading voices resonating around the room made through your soul, your mind.

Folks, when you feel or you actually know you are in emotional pain you don't know how to spit it out to anyone without getting the anxiety of them laughing or not unnderstaaanding us.