Thoughts Amid Dreams & Realities

I Think...19

The secret hidden in the eyes of a girl cannot be decoded easily 

AND

sometimes the secrets shall remain hidden

It true that girl's and boy's brain is wired differently, which is why their behaviours are so different from each other. And I think this thought came to me while thinking about adolescent age of boys and girls.

One day while talking to my office friends I realised that sometimes, it is really, very difficult to decode a girl's gaze. As a male you won't be able to realise the secrets or inhibitions locked up in that gaze of the girl you talked to for the first time, and might even make you go bonkers and force you to keep thinking about it. 

It is a fact that girls become emotionally mature at a younger age than boys and thus are equipped with emotional intelligence before boys even reach the previous stage. The only different thing here is that in this evolution the girls still carry the same body language until they really grow up and mature via learning from their mistakes. 

Now in-between this evolutionary phase sometimes girls face very challenging situations in which they cannot express freely how they feel. Their feelings get suppressed and sometimes before they get locked up, they come out in the form of physical language - body language, over which, control is gained with maturity not just emotional intelligence.

The gaze of the girls is one such part of their body language which I believe is really hard to decode when they actually become mature. 

In simple words - try to read a girl's eyes and you might discover something good or bad, but, you can't really figure it out what's going on inside her mind unless she shares it with you.