How to mend a broken heart

Knowing your worth

This is so not easy. After these things happen you're left questioning your value, your worth. Why wasn't I good enough? Why didn't they like me more? Why couldn't I make them love me? Was it all my fault?
For some people, these thoughts are always there, I know I felt it a lot.
It's normal to feel that way but don't allow those thoughts to stay.

You were put on this planet for a reason. Satisfying some crusty boy isn't it. (Or whoever or whichever gender it is)
Some people can see that you don't see your worth, and they use it to get what they want. They use you. They can see that your energy, and they enjoy the free access to it.
When you love someone, sometimes you're blinded by it. You ignore the red flags, the toxicity, you find excuses for their shitty behaviour. It happens.
We do this because we think this hurt is less painful than the hurt of losing them.
Realise that you need to stop allowing people unconditional access to you. You deserve respect. You deserve value.
You don't need to constantly prove yourself to someone. You will never be good enough for the wrong person. So don't change who you are for someone else. Be true to yourself.
You're not any less because one person can't see your worth.

All of this is easier said than done, I know. Take a lot of time and focus on yourself. Figure out what you want. Spend time with yourself and you'll see what an amazing person you are and you'll realise you deserve better and do not accept anything less.
Don't put up with immature, selfish people who want to use you.

If you're scared of losing someone make sure they don't wanna lose you either. Don't fight for someone who isn't worth fighting for.
"Holding onto someone who doesn't care to lose you will only make you lose yourself"
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Remember. Love yourself first.

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