How to Move Forward

DON'T CHASE, ATTRACT!

One of the things that you must avoid is to beg. Do not beg on the things or in the person because they will just walk away from you. Avoid chasing money, avoid chasing love, and avoid chasing people, because the more you will chase them, the more they will go far from you, attract them instead. It is easy to attract than to chase. Additionally, you will get a lot of beautiful things if you are attracting them. You are just wasting your time if you are begging the person who does not like you or chasing the things that are not meant for you. Accept the fact that not all the things you want will be yours. However, there are certain ways to get the things that we really wanted.

How will you apply this in business? Some other entrepreneurs usually chase people to purchase their products. Not all the people are interested with your product, even though you make a lot of efforts to convince them to buy your product, if they do not want to purchase it, they will not purchase it. So how will you increase your sales? You must attract the right people who are interested with your product. For example, you are a kpop fan and you want to create a business that selling a Korean merchandise items. Therefore, you must market your product to all the people who are a kpop fan too. You may use social media to market it or Facebook ads. You may also create promos like buy 1 take 1 or give them some freebies. Some other people says, there is no person who do not want free.

Some other people are having bad times to attract people or things that they want in life, because of that, they will just push themselves to have it. It is not good because you may easily attract them if you will use your brain. Yes, your brain, not just your look or your body. You have a millions of gems inside your brain, you just need to dig it up. It is easy to attract the people if you know where they are interested in. Know the things that they love to do or think about the things that they wanted to have. For example, you liked someone, and that person loves to eat chocolates, you may give that person some chocolates, or show to him/her that you have a chocolate.

I stalked

One day, there is one friend request notification that was pop up from my Facebook account. Usually, when someone are sending me a friend request, I stalk their profile first. I always check what kind of person he or she is. Where did he or she studies and what are their hobbies. So I stalked the person who sent me a friend request and I noticed that he loves doing artwork. He loves coloring materials and poetry, in short, he loves art. As an art enthusiast, it is easy for me attract him. In fact, I also wanted to befriend with him but my pride is too high even though my height is just 4'8 meters. I am too shy to befriend with other people. I am shy to talk with other people if I will be the first one who will make a conversation, but I can be their friend if they wanted too.

After several days that I accepted him on Facebook, I am thinking about how he will make a conversation with me first. Then I have realized, what if I will post my artworks in my Facebook stories or I will target him on my poems. I think it will workout since we have same interest, and that is art. I posted some of my artworks in my social media accounts. After several weeks, it works. He chatted me first and he said that he wanted to know me more and he wanted me to be his friend. It takes three weeks before he sent me a friend request, and now we are friends. He is helping me to improve some of my artworks and taught me the proper shading in creating a portrait. It is fun because a have friend that have the same interest of mine.

It is easy to attract the people or the things that you want if you will think and make some strategies on how you will attract them. Just be patient, work hard, and work smart, you will make it. Law of attraction will work if you will combine it with faith and action.