How to Move Forward

FORGIVE

There are people who are having a hard times to forgive especially if they experienced a deep pain. I cannot blame them because I did not really know how hurt they have feel. There are also people who can easily forgive other people, but they cannot easily forget the things that they are done to them. The said that "It is easy to forgive, but hard to forget" But the reality is, they really did not forgive the person, until they get to the point that they will talk about it again, they will dig it up again, and they will always mocked to the person the things that they have done in the past because they really did not yet forgive the person. You just give yourself a pain again and again if you always mocked them about the bad things they have done before.

All we have to do is to forgive and forget, although it is hard. It feels great if you are waking up every day without any angriness with other people or bitterness, that you are truly happy for them despite of the pain that they have done to you. I am not quicken you to forgive the persons who made a mistakes to you. It also takes a lot of time to forgive someone who make your life worst. However, you are still the one who will decide if when you are going to start to forgive them. We cannot change the past, all we have to do is to start all over gain and make the things workout. If there are persons who hurt and leave you, you must forgive them and forget. We cannot please everyone to stay in our life. There are people who will truly hurt us and leave us. If you will beaten by your emotion, you will be lose.

I am kind of person that's hard to forgive other people before. Even though they are saying sorry in a hundred million times, it's still hard for me to forgive them. Although I will say "okay" to them, I still get to the point that I will mock them. I think it's the result if they really destroy the trust that you gave to them, it's painful. Sometimes, you will get to the point that you will ask yourself that "Did I really deserve that?". You cannot also prevent yourself sometimes to cry because of heavy pain that they did to you. Time passes by, it's easy for me to forgive them totally. Sometimes, I also forget the bad things that they did to me. There's a time to heal the wounds that you have. I also realized that it's easy for me to move forward if you totally forgive them. There is no pain and tears at all. It's easy to sleep at night if you don't have any pain at your heart.

You go too far in life if you know how to forgive. It will become easy for you to move forward if you don't have any heavy baggage to bring. Just leave all the things that is part of your past that you've learn from them. It will be smooth and easy in taking your path.