How to Move Forward

GUARD YOUR HEART

If you are a soft person on Earth like me, then you have to read this. There are a lot of people on Earth that is soft-hearted. They are the people who are easily fall in love although they just met the person in just 5 minutes, or they can easily give the wants or the favors that they are asking by them. Sometimes, I'm thinking that if being soft-hearted is a blessing or a curse, because I always get hurt easily by other people. But now, I have realized, I need to protect my heart against the people who just wanted to use me. Not all the people surrounds you have a truly care for you. Some of them just want to use you, and I hope you will use your mind to protect your heart.

It's not bad to say "no" sometimes. Let's normalize rejections in life. Many people may reject you and you may also reject many people too. For every morning that we wake up , there's a lot of possibilities that we may encounter different kinds of people, we may know different characteristic of people. We didn't know what kind of person they are or if they true to us. We didn't know what is their purpose in our life, that's why you need to take care yourself more. There might be a person who will enter into your life to make your life happy, take care of you, and value you, but not all the time, they will always be there on your side. There's a possibility that they may hurt you and leave your life miserable. No one is perfect, because of that, there is someone who will really hurt you. If you feel that they didn't care about you anymore or they disrespecting you, confront them or leave. Be strong enough to confront other people especially if they are below the belt. Speak up, man. God gave us a mouth to express our emotions, our feelings, and the truth.

Not everyone deserves your "yes". Not everyone deserves your genuine heart. The Lord build your heart carefully and you just want to destroy it in just a second by the other people? Before you decide, ask yourself first if it's good for you. You should not just go with the flow. Not all the time you need to say yes quickly. There will be a person who will serve as the obstacle in the way of reaching our dreams, a distraction in our life. Instead of helping us to achieve our dreams, they will just opposed us or prevent us to fly high. Don't let your emotions control yourself. If they are not good for you even though you are truly, madly, in love with them, learn how to leave, learn how to walk out from the place that are not meant for you. They are not the people you need in your life, because if they truly love you, they will always protect you and they will not let you, especially your heart. They will value you like a fragile glass. They will overly take care of you like a box that needs to be handle with care. They will also support you and help you if you are in your worst time of your life.

Not all the people surrounds you area true to you. Some of them may just ruin you and use you. Some of them may hurt you especially if they see that you are not strong enough. Don't let them to debacle you. However, there are some people that are not worth it to fight for. They are the people who don't feel love by the other people and they are close minded people. They are the people who always start the fight. Therefore, to prevent this kind of shit and prevent the headache, let them stay stupid. You don't need to prove yourself to them especially if you really know yourself. It is better to not argue with them because they will just waste your time. They are not worth fighting for. Control your emotions wisely. If you are a sensitive person, you need to train yourself to be brave. Train your mind always that not all the people needs to fight with or trust with. There's a time to speak up, and time to be silent. All people are different that's why you cannot control them all. Control your mind to protect your heart because you will never know the people who wanted to tear you apart.