How to Move Forward

SELECT RIGHT PEOPLE

In moving forward, I have realized that I cannot do this alone, that I also need the support or knowledge from the other people. As what I have said in the previous chapter, I used to ask those people who had enough knowledge on the things that I wanted to know. We will not know the certain things that we wanted to know if we're going to ask wrong people. For example, you want to learn how to bake a cake, and then you ask your mom about it, but your mom is not really interested on cooking and she didn't know how to use some kitchen equipment, because of that, it will be harder for you to learn on how to bake a cake if you are going to ask your mom about it who doesn't have any knowledge about baking.

Sometimes, when we are getting older, there are times that some people that are close to us will never be a part of our lives. There are some people needs to leave us. Before, I am asking myself, why do they need to leave if they can be a part of my journey in achieving my success in life? Why do they need to leave if they are truly have a special part in my heart? It feels me so much pain because they really need to say good bye.

It's natural that there are some people who will really leave us. Now, I accept the fact that some people needs to leave me for them and for me to grow. There's nothing permanent on Earth. As what you have read earlier, maybe your friend that you are talking with today will not talk with you anymore starting tomorrow. Maybe the person that you are with today will not be with you anymore starting tomorrow. We will never know until when they are going to be part of our lives. If there is someone who wants to leave, just let them leave. It is their decision and we need to respect that. Maybe we are the reason why they are stuck, why they cannot move forward, or why they cannot grow.

There are also some people in our life that cannot support us. Not all our relatives or friends will always be there to got our back. It is somehow sad if you feel that you are lonely, because we're expecting their support but they cannot provide it. We cannot please them to support us, but if they really love you, I am sure that they will be there always on your side not just to support you but also to help you in achieving your dreams.

When I started to create my Facebook page about writing a poems, I didn't invite my Facebook friends, I didn't invite my family and also my close friends. However, they already know that I am writing a poem and I am having my Facebook page because I am posting it on my official Instagram account. I have 14 friends but I got only 3 likes to my Facebook page from my friends. My 3 friends supported me without telling to them to support me and it is heart melting because they voluntarily do that.

It seems like in your career or in your starting business. Not all your family relatives or your friends will going to support you or going to buy your products, but always remember that there will be always a people or one person who do not hesitate to support you. There's a lot of fish on the ocean. He will always provide you the people that will help you to achieve your dreams and He will also remove those people who are no longer need to be part of your life. Therefore, I am hoping that you will choose the right people that will help you to fly, choose the people that He given to you.