The Wattpad Guide to Boys

Q & A with @indiexvogue !

So this chapter is going to be a bit different (and hopefully more exciting) than the previous ones because... *wait for it*... IT'S A COLLAB CHAPTER! Me and Annaliese (aka @indiexvogue) covered lots of different topics and we hope you'll enjoy! 

Do you support gay marriage?

Erin - Yes I do support gay marriage. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being attracted to the same gender and I'm infuriated whenever I see somebody getting put down because of it. The fact that gay marriage isn't legal in all states yet is extremely upsetting. At this day and age people should be able to get married no matter the gender. Love is love and I wish more people thought the same thing.

Annaliese - Yes, love is love. If you're attracted to the same sex then that's fine with me. It is so annoying when someone uses "gay" as an offence. Gay marriage is beautiful and its crazy it's not legal in all countries.

What do you look for in a guy?

Erin - I look for a guy who is genuine, sweet, and not afraid to show his feelings (and a little cuteness never hurt anyone lmao). I don't like jumping into relationships, I like getting to to the guy first to determine his true intentions then committing to a relationship.

Annaliese -I look for a guy who's sweet, sensitive, positive and honest. If it's one thing I can't handle its lying! They have to be educated I don't want to date someone who has no idea what they're doing.

Single or taken?

Erin - Yep I'm taken! 4 months on March 1st. ^_^

Annaliese - single since forever ha ha why am I doing this!

So this guy texts me all the time- what does it mean?

Erin - if a guy texts you all the time that could mean one of two things. It could either mean that he likes you or he thinks of you as a very close friend. It really depends on how you two talk and if you two flirt or not.

Annaliese - as Erin said he either thinks of you as a great friend or likes. You it kind of depends whether he's flirting or being really friendly.

How do I get over him? 

Erin- The best way to get over someone is to cut all ties with them. That means no texting or talking to them at all. I know its super difficult to get over a guy but that's really the best way.

Annaliese - surround yourself with positive people and your loved ones. Delete any photos or texts from him ad definitley  delete him from your lockscreen (that's kind of a given). Think of the positive things in life. Change is great it makes the world go around. Embrace change!

Who's your OTP?

Erin - My otp is either Felix Kjellberg and Marzia Bisognin or Alfie Deyes and Zoe Sugg. I really can't choose between the two because they're all so cute together and both couples really care for each other. RELATIONSHIP GOALS ASF.

Annaliese - Selena Gomez and Zedd they're so perfect for each other!!! I never liked her and Justin Beiber, too scruffy! But Zedd's very classy and will be good for Selena!

What do I do if i like two guys at once??

Erin - Okay I myself have had to deal with this before, so I know how difficult it is to choose. The first thing you should do is think about who would treat you better. For instance if one of them is a player, he obviously wouldn't treat you well right? So you would choose the other one. The second thing to do is see who you like better as a person. Maybe one guy is super cute but an idiot who can't make conversation and the other guy is a strong 7 but makes really good conversation and is a really good guy. Wouldn't you choose the less attractive one?

Annaliese - It's completely fine to like two guys at once. But don't flirt with both of them because that could send the wrong message. Figure out which one you really like and try and not think about the situation too much because its completely natural!!

How can I break up with someone without causing drama or hurting their feelings?

Erin - Breaking up with someone without causing drama or hurting the other person is nearly impossible if we're being completely honest here. A good way to go about it is just to talk to the other person and explain the reason you want to break up with them. After you do that, try to talk about it as little as possible so there's less of a chance that drama will start.

Annaliese - Know why you're breaking up with them otherwise there's no point. If they cheated bring up how that really hurt you. Though if things just aren't working say it's you and not them and suggest an other friendship. Even though you often aren't friends after it shows that you're still open to having them in your life! Dump them how you would want them to be dumped.