this is pretty much just going to be me talking about how I realized I was aro ace, things I go through that may be different than other people because I am, and things like that. If you're ace and or aro then yay I hope you like it and can relate...
Since I'm ace it's really easy to understand why people are bi/pan/Omni, etc. Because I guess I see everyone the same kind of? And like yeah I totally get that everyone is attractive even though they don't attract me it makes sense that people are attracted to lots of people. If that makes sense.
Also I wish I didn't live in such a homophobic and transphobic area because like when I meet someone I'd love to say "hi I'm beth, my pronouns are she/her!" but where I live I can't really do that without people most likely being mean and stuff. And in general I just wish saying your pronouns was a part of normal introductions, because I feel bad just using whatever pronouns "seem to fit" someone. Most of the time at least when I see someone online (like in a random reel or something) I just use they/them pronouns because I don't want to assume anything, and also why not? It's pretty much what it's used for traditionally, you don't know someone's gender or preferred pronouns so you use they/them. (Example, they dropped their wallet I hope I can find them and give it back)
Disclaimer: I'm cis so I'm no expert about any of this I'm just trying to be a good ally, but if you're trans or gnc and I'm doing something wrong please tell me! /gen
Also aren't tone indicators cool? I like them when I can remember what they stand for, and if you don't know what I'm talking about then here:
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So yeah I think they're pretty cool.
I guess that's all for this chapter, have a wonderful day/night you beautiful valid you!! 💚🤍🖤🤍💜♠️🏳️🌈
