Random Stuff That I Think

Perfect, Imperfect : Happiness

Happiness.

Date: August 19, 2014

Status: Currently Conquering

Making ourselves happy is completely up to us. Others may effect how we feel, but at the end of the day we're the ones who end up dealing with however we're feeling at that point and time.

Today I decided to be happy, the past few days I was feeling depressed (not meant as an exaggeration, literally how I was feeling.) I woke up sad and upset, kind of angry too.

I felt discouraged, and I really didn't want to deal with the things that came with today but I had some kind of realization. If I want to be happy, then be happy. I know is easier said than done but still, just having that type of mindset can change your day and your outlook on it.

(Something I've recently learned: perspective is everything. No, you might be like 'nah that's nothing' but just changing the way you feel about something can change the way that thing effects you. So change you view and it might change your life. )

I know it changed the way I was feeling. When I woke up I was feeling down and really didn't want to be around anyone, the slightest of things that were upsetting to me, made me want - and did make me - to burst into tears. When I woke up my eyes were swollen, and it was clear that I had cried that morning and the night before.

Soon after that I realized, while reading the book The Heartbroken Heartbreaker on Wattpad, that sometimes when we feel like we're broken we need to cry, get mad, and move on. Not necessarily in that order and sometimes it takes longer for some, but at the end of it all we are the ones who have to pick up those broken pieces.

(If you've read the book you'd realize that I got that from it. I'm paraphrasing of course. Not stealing it or anything just saying.)

So, basically what I'm trying to say is we have to take a deep breath, let those bad feelings go and pick up our broken pieces.

Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. It means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections, and accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday.

-Unknown

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A/N: hey guys! This is the second part of Perfectly, Imperfect I hope you guys liked it and enjoyed it :)

Tell me what you think so far!

-Queen Out✌