Whirlpool

One. Expressive

my idea of expressing opinion.
I don't think I'd even know how to start this off without sounding like an angsty teenager. However, people are quite the interesting system. Naturally we need each other to survive our day to day basis. It's just how it goes, sure maybe being independent is another thing that comes into conversation. Yet it's greatly misunderstood. For example, you may go day to day handling your issues on your own, never tempted or needing to ask for help, but someone somewhere is putting in work to bring and or make the food at the grocery stores or the restaurants that you love to eat at. Or maybe the person who's responsible for making all the fashionable clothes that you love so much. People need other people. I won't preach that you should appreciate everything all the time and kiss the ground anyone walks on, however realize that it's okay to care for yourself, as well as it is okay to let people care for you. It's not selfish, nor does it make you less strong than you are.

  Along with the many things I will talk about, we can start with something simple, something many people have brought attention to multiple times.  In society it's been an ongoing factor, of men being seen as strong and leading figures. It's not exactly bad and luckily now yes women have a place in the world to be able to speak for themselves now but men do still struggle in the smallest ways too. You see, I've noticed that thanks to the fact that for so long young boys have been taught that crying makes you less than a man, they've been taught for so long that finding home in another person emotionally makes you weak, makes you less than everyone in the world. They've been taught by society that naturally as a man that sleeping with women is like a trophy. It's been factored in their mind that there's a specific expectation for what a woman is 'supposed' to look like and if they are anything less or anything more than they are trash. They are built to take things like trophies such as the many old  men in our history have. Don't get me wrong i'm not telling any of the femenist out there to bow their heads down and give men the benefit of the doubt but i'm encouraging a society where men are more informed and taught to be a bit more humble, it would create a more socially equivalent world. At least I hope it will. I imagine a world where men AND women and absolutely anyone at all  can be perfectly comfortable with their bodies as well as expressing their minds and emotions. A world where no one is ever expected to look one way or the other. A world where men don't solely depend on sex, sports, and/ or cars to be confident. A world where men won't constantly have their egos and their heads shoved 10 feet up their behinds. If you'd like, you could imagine calling it 'a more respectable world'.  A world where mens argument to everything isn't "not all men '' because it's usually most, and that's an undeniable fact. A place where men are able to defend their own community validly, and express their thoughts without sounding like absolute buttholes.
And for the woman. Although yes we do have a sort of 'equal' standing point in the world we still have to work 3 times as hard in this world. We continue to struggle over and over because as a society we always look at the negative points in anyone's argument. We use the same repeated statements and people overtime find more ways to fight our arguments or twist our words. As women I believe we have the right to do as we please, sure in a political stance we have all the same rights as men but socially we still get objectified. Whether we want it or not. We continue to be looked down on or we continue to change ourselves to "fix" the problem because there's a lot of females who were raised to believe in the thoughts of "maybe if i didn't do this then..."  and "well maybe if i did this more often..." . if we don't focus on working toward a future to where later generations of girls can go out running past sundown feeling a bit more safer. Just a bit if it helps, because of course there is no way to completely obliterate rapists,murderers, or kidnappers because we cannot control how other people think or the actions that they do. If we can work together to stand by what we believe in sternly, if we can trust each other to keep eachother safe, if we can accept each other as women I think, we'd be able to move over the huge iceberg between a mutual understanding between men and women. Because In the end  everyone is beautiful, no matter the shape, color, size, sexuality, gender, or age. Everyone is beautiful.
   As a society if we want change we need to be able to accept it first, in ourselves we need to be able to listen to each other's opinions and thoughts.
We always tend to argue or debate over things and misunderstand the expression of others words. In my opinion I think that despite our differences we all need to be able to accept the differences and continue to see each other as people. On both ends of the spectrum or Each line of the rope. It doesn't matter if you believe in god or multiple gods, or even none at all. I think if someone thinks differently or believes in something else, you should respect their decision to do so and not see them differently. If someone enjoys an odd style of dressing you should respect their decision to do what they choose with their body and they should do the same for you. It'll create a much more understandingly calm society. times are changing and people are getting older, as the years go i think that maybe it'd be best if we could all understand that some day at some moment we'll have to view things from the other perspective. Learn to be more open minded.
    Before I continue that conversation just yet, I think it'd be right for me to give the lgbtq+ community some light as well, especially since they have become a great deal to society now. Personally, I don't have a problem with anyone apart from the lgbtq+ community and for the sake of the book I won't define my gender, or sexuality and if you know me in real life congratulations you're all wonderful people. Anyway, as I was saying. Thanks to the lovely world of ours we have the ability to think however we please and do as we wish to.  I dont really understand the kind of people who tend to be mildly homophobic, ive always grown up with an understandig that people are who they are and i should respect that. If you look rather femenine whilst being a man it doesn't make you worse than you are. you are simply just a man who enjoys the more femenine side of things. In my view in this type of world I believe it makes you a lot more stronger than the average man when it comes to terms of ego and pride.
   Whether you like the same sex, or all of them, whether you define yourself as a woman, as a man, as both or neither ect. It makes no difference to me. Because if i like to be around i like to be around you, and as your friend, lover,coworker, student,family member, or just someone who cares i'll support you. It takes alot for anyone to have the strength and bravery to be one's true self in front of the world.
    Now, to all the people who disagree, or simply just don't like anything to do with the lgbtq+ community i will not be here to tell you how to live your life or to change what you believe in. but as well as i'm not here to tell you to do so i hope after reading anything i've written you can find some part within yourself to consider respecting others beliefs as well. You don't have to indulge yourself in their beliefs, or even celebrate it. Just simply live your life how it is, see people for how their personality is and how they take place into our society. Not who or what they identify as, or what they like. Because I'm sure you wouldn't like it if someone overstepped your boundaries in any way.

   For me I don't really care much about how anyone lives their lives. As long as it doesn't affect me, or anyone I care for. You can simply live your life how you want. As long as it doesn't concern me it is what it is, and in the end all of this is simply an expression of opinion.