Articles Written by Rumi Mahmud

It Is What It Is

It's not that people don't care about others' feelings; it's that they don't know how to respond to them. Family demands that a person's everything belongs to them; Friends ask for more time together to embrace their lives. But in the end, the person just wants to do what likes to do. The person wants a space where life can be accepted as it is now. Others' expectations of the person lead to a life that is not meant for the person. And when the person sees that others didn't expect the person in their life, there is nothing left to live for. Everyone just wants what the person can provide based on their expectations, but every expectation comes to an end. So, the conclusion is to love people as they are; don't try to change someone, and don't change yourself for someone.