Soulful (TayNew)

Part-13

New's POV

Seeking Advice from Nunew

It's been four years since Tay and I got married. On paper, we seem like the perfect couple, but the reality is far from it. From the very beginning, I was deeply in love with Tay. I believed that our marriage would be filled with love, care, and romance. But Tay, he only sees me as a friend.

We've been living like roommates rather than a married couple. Separate rooms, separate beds, and not even a single kiss in these four years. It breaks my heart. I want more from this marriage. I want Tay's love, his care, his attention. I want a romantic married life, the kind I always dreamed of. But how do I make him see me as more than just a friend?

One evening, I decided to talk to Nunew, my close friend. He’s always been there for me, and I hope he can give me some advice on how to change Tay's perspective.

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"Nunew, can we talk?" I asked, my voice barely above a whisper. We were sitting in a quiet corner of a café, away from prying eyes and ears.

"Of course, New. You seem troubled. What's on your mind?" Nunew replied, concern evident in his eyes.

I took a deep breath and poured my heart out. "It's about Tay. We've been married for four years, but it's like we're just friends. We don't share a room, we don't share a bed, and we've never even kissed. I love him so much, but he doesn't feel the same way. He only sees me as a friend. I want more, Nunew. I want him to love me the way I love him. How can I make him see me differently? How can I seduce him?"

Nunew listened intently, nodding as I spoke. After a moment of silence, he began to speak. "New, it's clear that you love Tay deeply, and it must be incredibly painful for you to be in this situation. But seduction isn't just about physical attraction. It's about emotional connection and making someone feel special. Here are a few things you could try."

1. **Communicate Openly**: "Have you ever told Tay how you feel? Sometimes, people need to hear words to understand the depth of someone’s emotions. Tell him about your feelings, your hopes, and your desires for your marriage. Be honest and vulnerable."

2. **Spend Quality Time Together**: "Try to create opportunities to spend time with Tay. Plan activities that you both enjoy. Whether it's cooking together, watching movies, or taking a walk, these moments can help build a stronger bond."

3. **Small Gestures of Affection**: "Start with small, non-threatening gestures of affection. A touch on the arm, holding his hand, or a gentle hug. These actions can gradually build a sense of intimacy."

4. **Create Romantic Moments**: "Set up romantic evenings. Candlelit dinners, soft music, and a cozy atmosphere can set the stage for more intimate moments. Show him that you care through thoughtful gestures."

5. **Be Patient**: "Change takes time, New. Don't rush things or put too much pressure on Tay. Let your relationship evolve naturally. Patience is key."

6. **Seek Professional Help**: "If things don't improve, consider seeing a marriage counselor. Sometimes, an objective third party can help both of you understand each other's feelings and find a way forward."

Nunew reached across the table and took my hand, giving it a reassuring squeeze. "Remember, New, you're not alone in this. I'm here for you, and I believe that with time and effort, things can change. Keep loving Tay, and show him every day how much he means to you."

I nodded, feeling a glimmer of hope. Nunew's advice gave me a new perspective and a sense of direction. I knew it wouldn't be easy, but I was willing to do whatever it took to win Tay's heart. After all, love is worth fighting for.