We came back from Venda yesterday. To be quite honest I thought that Tendani would come back not because I don't want to be part of my daughters life but because what human leaves a child and just flee from the face of the earth. Before we left I went to her house in Venda and I was told that she moved out with her mom. Where did they move to you may ask? Well I don't know she left.
Anyways we took the responsibility and now we are parents to a 7 year old girl. She's so smart, kind, stubborn very out spoken. In short time I've got to spend time with her I want to protect her from everything and anything. I want to be the best father I can be for her.
"Baby what are we going to day when she asks about her mom?" Zinhle asked after we tucked her in the guest bedroom. For now that will be her bedroom until we design her bedroom. Now we are chilling in our bedroom.
" eish baby I don't know. I don't want to lie to her but I feel like she's too young to understand." I say, not knowing what to say because this is a hard thing to talk to a child about.
" I guess we will cross this bridge when we get there. But my question is how does she feel about being a big sister. I mean a lot is changing for her." Zinhle says, I mean agree with what she's saying a lot of things are changing for her.
"Yea we need to work harder to make her feel seen and loved." I say
"Yea I agree. But I feel like for her to feel loved and wanted why don't we make her room and decorate it with her?" she asked, I love that idea
"Okay, let's make it date tomorrow. Our first family outing!" I say getting excited a bit. She laughs
"Yes, baby our first family outing! Now let's go sleep." We did our night routine and went to bed.
I can't believe I am going to be a father to 3 children in the span of one year. That's crazy
Zinhle's POV
Me and Khathu are sleeping together cuddling. We feel jumping on the bed. Nduvho is jumping waking us up. If this is parenthood bengiphapha because I love my sleep.
"Daddy! Mommy Zinhle! Wake up the sun is out!" she says jumping on the bed Khathu wakes up first and tickles her giggle was so cute. Seeing this moment made Khathu look so hot I can't lie here.
"Okay, let's go make breakfast for mommy Zinhle, then we can go and buy you your new bedroom stuff princess. Is that okay?" Khathu asked Nduvho she nods her head.
"Okay daddy." They both disappear into the kitchen while I clean the bedroom, make the bed and take a quick shower. I change into shorts and Khathu's shirts.
I walk downstairs and find the daddy daughter duo cooking in the kitchen. They look so cute I take a picture of them and post them on my story. We decided that we wuldn't post Nduvho as yet until she's fully settled here with us. Plus since her mother technically ave Khathu full custody of Nduvho.
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