~Zinhle's POV~
HEY GUYSS!! Wow its been a year since I have updated you. The last time I saw you was last year. When the twins were just born now we have 1 year old toddlers, 8year old daughter, 32 years old husband and me obviously 28 years old. We are in the process of planning Nduvho her 9th birthday party. But we will get to that, now let me update you guys on everything.
So what happened was I was being a boss babe, while doing that I was trying to be a good mom and wife. And wow that was really hard. I would say it was a hard time in my marriage with Khathu was a bit difficult because we were both really busy. His business was growing and he was hardly home and my influencer business grew so much that I was voted best YouTuber/ content creator in Africa. I was even part of the last year and this years YouTube Black voices. Which meant more work for me but more money too. In the midst of that we had to show up for our children and be present parents and that was also putting a strain on our marriage.
We felt like co-parents to be honest. We lived like roommates. We would have the same arguments about us always being to busy. Until this one day when we had a huge argument which led Khathu to move out and went to our old home before we moved out to our newly built house. We basically lived like a separated couple. Nduvho and the twins would visit their dad during the weekends. And I hated that live for them so much. A life I worked so hard for my kids not live and here we are living like that.
To be honest that was so hard. You know when people say if there is one thing that will test your faith in God is marriage I thought it was a joke until me myself and I were in the situation. I had to pray extra hard, fast and talk to God because I was starting to think of divorcing him even though it broke me down sana. But then our dear friends Lethu and Mandla, Phathu and Khathus brother Hulisani ambushed and gave us a lengthy lecture on how we are both miserable without each other, how its afeecting our children and how the gc(group chat) is broken. So we promised to go to therapy. With that we had to make it a propriety to make time for each other when we both need each other. Date each other again and go back to being the best friends we were. And I can say now me and the love of my life have been going strong and stuff. Our kids are happier, we are happier our families too. That is basically the story guys!
Anyways enough about my marriage we are now on party planning mode. My sweet baby is turning 9 years old. We are happy to see this young, outspoken, smart baby girl. I love to see her grow up she deserves this party. So we are throwing her a party!! I'm excited and guess what hubby said about the budget.... He said we are free to do what ever.
So today is 5 days before the party I am in my home office. I'll give you guys a home tour after this but for now I'm in my home office uploading some YouTube video and sending some brand work to the respective brands. My Rinae&Ronewa are busy with our nanny. My first born is at school this week is Khathus week to fetch her from school. We do this thing were we alternate weeks because it is only fair because school drop off and pick up are so much work wo yeah.
"MOMMY!" I hear little Nduvho calling me I close my laptop. I walk downstairs and find Nduvho.
" Hi mommy!"
"Hi baby, how was school?" I asked her. my daughter is one girly girl. She doesn't like being dirty, she is always looking neat like she wants to be neat, her hair need to be done properly. Her uniform is barely dirty. I remember I told Khathu that he has a little girly girl on his hand and his wallet needs to watchout because he has three females to take care of. That time he wants a another baby this time a son.
" School was good, my friends said that they are excited about my party." She says
" oh really that's good. Now come give your mother a kiss and hug." I say. She runs to be and hugs me I spin her around then kiss her lips.
"Mommy doesn't Daddy deserve a kiss." I turn to see my dear husband standing there with a bottle of water. I let Nduvho down I told her to go change. Then I fully give Khathu my attention.
" Hello Mr Mulaudzi," I walked towards him, gave him a hug then kissed him.
" Hello Mrs Mulaudzi," then he kissed me again. then he moved to my neck. As we were about to continue we hear throats clearing. We turned and found our nanny staring. At us more like my husband. I roll my eyes at her.
" can we help you?" I asked her
" uh..." the little girl is still starting at my husband
" hello sisi," I looked at her and clicked her fingers to get her attention.
" oh uhm... I am leaving i need a drive to the gate." She says looking at my husband like who is she.
" oh that's okay. I'll send my driver to drive you out when he leaves." I say then leave her there to wait for bhut'Vusi. Because whatever she's trying to do won't work today espically before my daughter's birthday party.
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(day of the party)
Today is my babys birthday. I am super excited. Its currently 7:30 Khahtu and I are outside her door with a cupcake and a candle we are about to sing her happy birthday. While the tent outside is being installed and ballons are being made outside. Since the house is on 3 hectares of land so on the further side of the land we have a little club house area near the pool. Where the stretch tent will be so that is where everything will be held. Its going to be a braai typa thing. Anyways back to little Birthday girl, we opened her doors to find her still snoring away. We walking in singing for her.
" Happy Birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear Nduvho happy birthday to you..." we sang for her and she woke so excited for her day. She hugged me and I gave her a kiss on her lips . then she went to her father and gave him a hug and kissed her lips too.
" Happy birthday my baby, mommy and daddy love you so much neh my baby." I say she nods her head then blows then candle.
""Nduvho, ida fhasi, Makhulu u khou lindela na tshilalelo tshau.(Nduvho go downstairs Makhulu is waiting for you with your breakfast down stairs.)." Khathu tells Nduvho she nods and runs downstairs. Our kids are learning Tshivenda me too. I mean nduvho already knew Tshivenda because she grew up there but the twins are learning more too. Mostly because Khathu communicates to them in venda 90% of the time. Also to me. and since he wants our kids fluent in their native togue we agreed that at school they will take isizulu so they learn too.
Anyways after we tidy up Nduvhos room then bathed the twins. We got ready for a birthday party!
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