At the end of the day all we have is memories

Right person wrong timing

When I was about 15 or 16 I met a blue eyed boy
Well This was the first time that I ever fell in love, or so I thought it was and it was the deepest I have ever fallen in love. The frequency and intensity with which I felt, anything, was something I didn't believe possible – I honestly didn't know that a person could feel so incredibly happy and horribly miserable.
Finding the right person, a person you want to spend your life with, is the greatest accomplishment one can achieve. Yet, the unfortunate truth is that the right person doesn't always come at the right time. And that makes all the
You're not guaranteed to find the right person at the wrong time, but it can happen. I'm living proof. I understand you may be thinking that if you met the right person, the person you loved with all your soul, things would just work out.
We see it in all the movies. Boy meets girl. Boy and girl fall in love. And they live happily ever after – roll credits. How wonderful it would be if the world were so simple.
In reality, human beings are emotionally complicated and because we're so emotionally complicated, we manage to make situations complicated. (ME) Even if you do find the right person, if you aren't the right person you yourself need to be, the relationship will fail. Relationships don't only fail because the person you're with turns out to be the wrong person; they also fail when you yourself aren't yet the person you need to be. If you aren't yet capable of being in a loving relationship then the two of you are doomed.
You will most likely implode emotionally and take it out on the person you love. This goes for the person you love as well – if this person isn't at the point in life where he or she can be a loving and devoted partner, the relationship won't work either. There are so many ways a relationship can fail, it's amazing that we aren't all alone.
Many people will make excuses for why they aren't in a place in their lives that's conducive to a healthy relationship. Many will argue that they need to focus on their careers. Some will argue that they still want to explore life and spend more time flying solo before settling down.
Others will even convince themselves that the love they've felt for so long wasn't true love. They will twist their emotions and memories to make themselves believe that it was more of an illusion than anything else, a dream they need to wake up from. Yet, these are all excuses that veil the truth.
The honest truth is that whether you can admit it to yourself or not, you are not capable of loving – not the way the other person needs to be loved. We should only allow ourselves to settle for one sort of love. The sort of love that is all-consuming, intoxicating, passionate and, at the same time calm, collected, caring and supportive.
We should only settle for a love that embodies the definition in its purest form: to love fully, deeply and selflessly – or rather, as selflessly as humanly possible. I'm not talking about the love of fairytales. I'm talking about the most ideal love that people can possibly be a part of.
Now, the problem when you do find the right person is that you may not yet be willing to give up a part of yourself – because that is what you're going to have to