Meh #2

How to date/deal with rejection

1) Don't be all butt hurt over rejection -.-

Especially if you've JUST met them. I understand that it feels like no ones going to love you and all. But DONT  give up. If you do, then you'll never notice that the ones that loved you the most were standing right next to you. Or were with you through everything.

Don't be all sad and then "cut" over rejection. I've made that mistake before. And I've realized how dumb it was for me to cut over it. Now, I'm talking about dating rejection. Not like abuse or anything.

2) Don't be all "Wow. I'm going to go kill myself now. " or "Someone please kill me." -.- Really? -.- just because they didn't go out with you?? Just because they won't go out with you?? -.- learn to take rejection. It's NOT the end of the world people. -.-

3) If you get friend zoned. DONT give up hope. Maybe they just don't want to be in a relationship right now. Or they just met you. Or something. Just be their friend, and maybe some day they'll begin to have feelings for you.

4) DONT BEG -.-

Do NOT beg someone to go out with you -.- that's just childish. -.- and annoying. Respect their decision and judgments. Yeah I've been bugging Oliver about it, but that's because I know he's going to ask me out. And he knows I'm joking. Also I've asked him if it's annoying. So... -.-

Just don't be like, "Please!!!"
Honestly -.- this is for girls and guys.

5) Don't call them an "ass." Or tell them to "fuck off" or anything in between. Again, it's childish. And dumb. It also makes you seem desperate, and immature.

7) DONT SAY "I love you." On the first day of dating. -.- I've been in those relationships and there the ones that don't work out. If you're saying it within a week or days. It's honestly too soon. UNLESS you're like a Danny and Tabitha's relationship where they've known each other for two years. And have been best friends for  forever. Then it's understandable, but if you've just met and just started dating. Don't say it. Don't say "I love you." Until you actually know you love them. In the beginning it always seems that you "love them." But you should wait for a while until you actually say it, and actually know that you love them. Especially out of their actions and words.

Just don't say it too soon. Either wait for the other person to say it first. Or wait until you've been dating and/or known each other for months. NOT weeks. NOT days. Because relationships that say "I love you. " on the first day and stuff generally don't last too long. Also it's almost over using the words "I love you." When they're supposed to be genuine and special.

8) IN A RELATIONSHIP. HEAR THE OTHER PERSONS SIDE OF THE STORY. Depending on the situation. If it's clear they cheated on you or currently are. Because someone showed or you saw the messages. Then break up with them. Or give them another chance. It's your call.

But in other problems. Such as rumors and stuff. MAKE SURE YOU GET BOTH SIDES OF THE STORY.

And don't be biased. Don't just take your girlfriend or boyfriends side. Just because you're dating them. If your significant other. Is clearly in the wrong. CALMLY and nicely and CLEARLY explain why. Play Devils Advocate. Meaning. Hear both sides and think about what you've heard. But don't side with just one of the people. 

9) in dating. DEPENDING on what kind of person your BF/ GF is. Send them a sweet text or write a sweet chapter just for them. Now, yes this is from a girls perspective, but honestly. Everyone has to admit that it does make you feel important and special.

You don't have to do it all of the time. Maybe like every once in a awhile. For their Birthday, holidays, anniversary and stuff. Or send a random one. You never know how their day is currently going. They may need it.