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Now, I blacked out their name and stuff because I don't need them getting bullied, and stuff.
If your BF/gf breaks up with you. DO NOT threaten suicide or self harm. You don't understand the effects it has on the other person. The other person feels obligated and stuck and guilty. Obligated and stuck, because they feel like they HAVE or NEED to be there and stay with you. So that you don't commit or attempt or self harm. Which in turn. Makes them miserable.
It makes them sad, because their not happy. Also it gives them anxiety because they're worried that if they'd break up with you, you'll die or something.
In most cases these are fake. And the person's just trying to get you back by guilt tripping you into staying. It's not healthy or good.
There's also no need to even threaten or actually do it. There's other people out there. It's not the end of the world. Just don't give up hope. There's plenty of people out there. And regardless of your story. You shouldn't threaten or attempt. Or actually do it.
I'd understand if you've been dating for 3years or even 2 years. Because it's a long time, and stuff. But not three months or weeks. Or however many months. It's NOT a way to keep somebody. Or to make them happy or to get them to stay. It's cruel and mean. Think about how the other person will feel.
Just move on please. I know, I've been through the same thing. My ex threatened suicide after I broke up. Well...tried to break up with him. Twice. Then I finally broke up with him. Just please don't do this to people. It's not right.
I'll help you through break ups and stuff if you want.
