So call me insane but, I personally feel like implying something and saying something are almost the same thing. They both have the same meaning but, they are given differently. One is more direct, the other requires context clues.
I'm bringing this up because today and many other days, things have been implied. I've been called a slut by my friends and family, and implied to be one by my mother within the past few weeks.
And I'm pissed. I'm also annoyed. But mainly pissed.
Because sometimes when you imply or say something you need to have a good reason. You need to know your information first.
But in general, you shouldn't slut shame anyone no matter what.
So what if I flirt with a bunch of people? Now a days, flirting doesn't mean shit to me. Everyone flirt with everyone. Everyone flirts differently. Some people mean it, some people like me don't. Everyone feels differently. When I am blunt about stuff, that's when it's real. If it's real emotions, if I can keep real emotions for a year and a month, then I think that would make me very loyal. If it's implied they like someone, ask, don't assume. You cannot imply or say I like them or that I'm a slut unless you know my thoughts and feelings.
And you know what? If I am friends with a guy that doesn't mean I like him. What if I'm friends with a billion guys? I don't have a crush on all of them. You cannot imply or say that unless you know someone's thoughts or feelings.
And if I do like more than one guy, I am not a slut. You cannot imply or say that. You can imply or say that I have a big heart though.
If I wear a certain shirt, sit with my legs open for a while, I'm not a slut. If you hear something about me that sounds slutty, you should think if that actually happened or not because only I would know.
You cannot imply or say someone is a fuck boy because he's friends with a lot girls. You may see them flirt but, I've learned that you can flirt with FRIENDS. Only that guy knows who he likes. He might not say it to you, he might say it to you. But until you know how he feels, you can't imply or say anything about him.
You cannot judge someone based off their friends. You cannot imply or say a guy is a fuck boy because his friends did some bad things. I made that mistake and luckily, I earned a redemption.
So yes implying and saying something are almost the same thing but, don't do that unless you know someone's feelings. Sometimes it's okay but, don't overdo it. Don't turn it to something overly negative. And if someone says no and really means it, then respect that. If they don't like something and tell you that then stop. If someone implies they don't like it, make sure you ask them if you should stop because maybe they'll think your changing. And if you imply something but people don't take the hint, be open. Because even though both are the same thing almost, they still are different.
Yeah. I hope this makes sense.
Bye munchkins and uh trash ;)
