Hey Sup all, I'm here today to share a topic. Some teens might understand this and most parents would probably hate me about this but.. Let me start this off.
"Everyone is a Bad parent." Why? None of us, but God, is Perfect. We are not perfect, even if you try so hard You'll never will. Why? Because we are humans. No matter how many years you live, circumstances you reach, even if you already know everything or even if you are already a paremt, you will never be perfect coz we'll always be Humans.
Now to start this topic, Let me show some bad habits children do these days.
*Addictions of Illegal Drugs
*Addiction of Drinking wine and cigarets
*addiction on the internet
*Doing bad things to others
*Bad words (MOSTLY!!)
*Shouting back to their parents
Well these will be some of the main habits but I'll give this a Shot. Well everyone, Parents I'll have to ask this. What do you think is the reason why they do this? Some would say...
"Bad Influence from Bad friends."
"They learn it from the internet."
"They thing they rule by doing this!"
"They thought they'll be a perfect by doing this."
Well then, none of those is the answer. These will be the final question that might help you know why they do this. "Do you think they'll do this without a deep reason?"
Think about this everyone, an Addiction will not be appreciated not because you seen it doing by some friends, internet or anywhere, It's committed, not learned. Even if a friend ask your child to try cigarrets, they surely deny it not just because it's bad, because of how it smells yack. But if your child has a deeper emotions that would clearly blame themselves, what could they possibly do to themselves.
They will not do these things just because they want to, coz they think they need it, that could help them...well what they think could help them. Lets not misunderstood our children because they do this, you would just make them think they are a disgrace.
Some parents even take their children to a psychologist only to waste money at something they could already do themselves.
Here are some reasons why they do so..
*Addictions of Illegal Drugs/ Addiction of Drinking wine and cigarets
= They believe by doing this, it would make the pain their spiritually feels to their Physical body instead, or maybe, makes them forget their problems.
*addiction on the internet
=Most of us do not feel welcome in the outside world, they cannot have something called "self-belonging". Special from their family when they don't have time for them that they would look for something else that gives them attention. They think they belong there coz they aren't welcome outside. Also same to Illegal Drugs and cigarets reason, they think they could forget their problems by entertaining themselves.
*Doing bad things to others/ Bad words
= Some Bullies cannot express themselves at home so they would release it outside. To release their anger and depression
*Shouting back to their parents
=Parents should know that when a child grew up, they would also have their own beliefs, like they do. Sometimes they are trying to explain why but their parents only shout back and say shut up coz they do not wanna listen. Well, Parents, do you think that is the moment when the children is actually asking for help?
Well I just said it.. And I have advise for Both Parents and children
As For Parents. "What ever happens, we will never force our child to become who we want them to be, but we can only help them who they want them to be and support them. We also cannot stop them from doing those by force, but we can by asking 'why' and listen to their problem. Give the right advise with full of Love and understanding. We can only give the, the right advise but we should know that their life is not ours, not theirs. All we can do is guide and help, not stop."
Children. "This world has a lot to give but always remember that not everything stays forever. In our darkest times, there is a light waiting for us. Just don't loose hope and determine for God's better plans. Plus we shouldn't neglect our problems, we should face it bravely and learn from it. Also remember that God is there always, to help and love you. Never forget that. And if you think your parents are hurting and abusing you, remember God is approaching and you can always pray to him."
Thats all.. God bless
