How to Date a Girl - A Gentleman's Guide

Chapter 1 - Know your priorities

Well, hello there. You are probably reading this because you are wondering about the title of this guide, right?

I mean, is there really a correct way? 

To answer your question: No - there probably isn't one.  However, one thing we all know is that there is, undoubtedly, a lot of ways to get a girl's heart. If you'll notice in today's society, the common trend demonstrates a man's total disregard for the respect a girl deserves when committing into a relationship  - this is more commonly known as fuckboys.

What is a fuckboy? 

"A fuckboy is the worst kind of guy, or at least one who represents the worst trends of the present moment." - (c) Google

Fuckboys jump from woman to woman with no thoughts of establishing a long-term relationship, disregarding the simple trust and respect that girls deserve. They are the worst kind of people in today's generation. Why? Because they chase on this notion of 'love' when their definition of love is actually 'lust'.

So what do you prioritize? Satisfying that itch in your loins from a girl that you really don't care about or a long-term relationship with someone you've worked so hard to achieve? If you picked the former, I suggest you stop reading after this sentence, print out a hard copy of this guide and slam the copy to your face until you reflect on your actions, repeatedly. If you were a fuckboy and you want to change your way of life, then by all means, do continue. But if you still treat girls as mere toys, I suggest that you do some deep thinking, because when you grow up, no woman is going to appreciate what you have done and how you've treated them. Your main priority in a relationship is to commit, love, value, and respect the girl of your dreams, and to keep the fire burning for as long as the two of you are together.

Okay, so the cheesy parts are over. The priorities that I mentioned on the title of this chapter is the priority of having a relationship over other things. The first thing to decide whether you are suited to have a relationship is to know if finding a girlfriend is on your priority list. If you are a student, chances are that your first priority in life is to graduate and to land a good job. Having a girlfriend at this time is fine, but it is only a second priority. NEVER exchange your dream of finishing school for a girl. There is an ocean of women around you, and finishing your studies just makes it easier to reel her in. Nobody wants a parent-dependent man as a husband, right?

So, to all the students out there: Books before girls.

If you've finished your studies and you already have a stable job, chances are that you're just waiting for her to come into your life and turn your dull, boring world into a wonderful sunshine where everything is made of rainbows. But is finding a girl the most important thing in your life right now, or is it helping your family and saving up for your own future? Relationships aren't labels that make you famous, it is a sacred bond between two people wherein they cherish one another. If you have a family waiting for you to feed them, then don't worry, she will come to you soon enough, but for now, think about yourself and the family that depend on you. Fate has a magical way of working things out. Once you are confident with yourself that she is your highest priority, that is the only time that you should pursue her.

If you can put a check mark on the following requirements above, then congratulations, you are ready. You are now suited to love (or love again) a woman. Good luck on finding that special someone, but before you do that, carefully read the next part. It's VERY, VERY IMPORTANT.