Forever My......

48.

Saturday, May 7, 2016

Bryce Parker,

I looked at Mom, Ms. Mackenzie, Olivia, and Dream as they looked at me.

"Xay said what?" Dream asked again.

"He said that I can have strippers at my bachelorette party but I don't want any."

"I thought he was joking when he said that too me." Olivia said while rubbing her round stomach.

"I'm shocked but then again I'm not. I'm shocked Xay said yes to strippers and that you don't want any." Ms. Mackenzie said.

"I just wouldn't feel right looking at another man naked or even half naked. Just don't seem right."

"And it's not but he said that he wouldn't mind." Mother said.

"I could care less if he cared or not. I don't want them." I said looking down at my phone.

I went back to looking for my wedding gift for Xayvion. I understand that my hand in marriage is the greatest gift he can ask for my I just feel like he deserves another gift right now.

"Don't you try to act like you don't hear us speaking." Mother said.

"I'm not acting any type of way. I'm trying to find Simba's wedding gift."

"I thought bride and groom got gifts from other people." Olivia said in pure confusion.

"They are allowed to give each other gifts." I said looking back down at my phone.

"Xay doing the sa..." Ms. Mackenzie stopped mid sentence and looked at me. "I'm text y'all." She said pulling her phone out.

"I want to know." I said locking my phone.

"Didn't you say you was looking for a gift."

"Now I'm involved with this conversation." I said to Dream while rolling my eyes.

"About to text Xay about all the attitude you giving off." She said rolling her eyes as well.

"Are we going to go out eat or no?" I asked standing up.

"Were we eating at?" Dream asked looking up from her phone.

"I have a taste for pasta so Brickoven." I said.

"Sound good." They said standing up.

Once we arrived at Brickoven we was seated and ordered our food and drinks.

"I love them for their fast service man." Liv said twirling her straw in her drink.

"Is that them boys?" Mother asked causing us to look at the door.

"It's crazy how they have a day without us but if we try to have a day without them they always show up." Olivia said causing all them to roll their eyes.

"Don't roll y'all eyes at us. We just came to pick our food up and then we gone." Ty said as they walked over to us while Xayvion went to the counter.

"We'll leave us alone." Dream said rolling her eyes once more.

"So disrespectful." He said walking off.

"Let's gone man before y'all get left." Uncle Eleazar said walking out the door.

They all left and then everyone looked at me.

"We need to talk to you and Liv." Ms. Mackenzie said.

"What?" Me and Olivia asked concerned.

"Here is just so things to remember about marriage." Mother said. "Never let him know when you are wrong because you are always right."

"Never. Don't let him get to complacent in you always cooking, make his ass cook sometimes." Ms. Mackenzie said.

"And don't let him think he runs you. It's okay for him to be the man of the house but you have to stand your ground." Dream said.

"Oh and always remember that even if he think he run things, he doesn't you do." Grammy said sitting down. "Men love to think they run things until you tell him he can no touch the diamond."

"That is true." Mother, Ms. Mackenzie, and Dream said while nodding their heads in agreement.

"I don't think Simba is going to be like that."

"B trust us. The honeymoon phase lasted about six months with me and Ty, so I give y'all about nine months. The honeymoon phase is when y'all just all lovey, don't see nothing wrong with the other person, always want to be under each other, and always want to have sex. That's the phase where you have sex any and everywhere."

"And see for men that don't really bother them but for us we get bored of just having sex all the time so we want to try and do something else. Like go out, taking arts and craft classes together you know weird shit but for men it's not like that. It's hard to find a man that gets tired of sex and if Xay anything like his father was that would be never."

"See is woman, well some of us can just stop having sex often and hold out of our mate. Men don't like that at all, they think they have done something wrong when you just got of the blue say no to sex." Mother said causing me and Olivia to look at each other.

"The first few times you say no it's okay but then once it goes into that second week and you say no they about to die. They feel deprived but they not going to say it to you, they gone start giving little hits at how deprived they feel." Grammy said as the woman sat out food down.

"Ain't that the truth." The waitress said before walking off.

"And don't let it go into a month of you not giving him sex because now in his mind you giving it to some other nigga." Dream said.

"Wait so if we go a month without giving them sex they gone think we giving it to somebody else?" Olivia asked.

"Yes." They all said, even the woman at the table beside us.

"Of and always remember this, never give the nooknook up for free. Not saying to be a gold digger but if he ain't treating you out to eat or just spending time with you, he don't get the nooknook." Mother said.

"That is true." The others agreed.

"Now let's eat and remember those things and you will be good." Dream said mixing her food.