To the one who was left behind,
Hello, I know you're tired of hearing this things. You need to move on, you'll find someone better and she isn't worth it. Your ears are probably bleeding from hearing this words over and over. As if, they know what you truly feels. As if hearing this would lessen the hurt. They didn't know that you cried when no one's looking. You cried till morning that it drained you.
They didn't know that you drowned yourself to alcohol, just to numb everything. But it didn't, you just got wasted and had a massive hangover. They didn't know that you stalked her social medias, and waited like crazy for her updates. They didn't know that you prayed so hard, that everything's a nightmare. That when you wake up you are still happy together. Probably, they don't know anything but believe me they see your pain and just want to help ease it.
Let me share you one thing, one realization about love. I learned that no matter how much you invest into it, time, money, and effort, it won't count much. No matter how long you've been together, it doesn't mean you'll end up together. If one party is no longer happy and love can't be felt anymore, it is better to let go.
Yes, you'll try to make things work, to rekindle your love. But dear, some things were not meant to be fixed. Don't recount what you had invested, because you did it willingly out of love and no one forced you. You will just imprison yourself into misery.
I know, I just know.You may cry buckets of tears but soon you'll have tears of joy. You may feel like she is the center of your universe but you're wrong, YOU are. You are the center of your own universe. You may feel empty right now but remember she wasn't there half of your life. That time of your life, you have your family and friends and everything was amazing. You may feel like your heart is broken into pieces, but soon you'll find every part and mend it together. Soon you will smile again and everything's gonna fall into their right places.
It may take days, months or even years, but you'll get by no matter how long it takes. Now cheer up and let time heal every wounds. You will be fine, maybe not now, but SOON.
Feeling you,
The one who was also left behind
