Friendships That Fade

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Companions, acquaintances, confidantes, mates


These are the names, the terms


Used to call those people,


Those who are important, crucial,


Valuable to us all.


But, something is missing,


Something is included in this list,


What could it be mmmh?


Starting with the letter F


Foes, fellows, familiar beings.


No no no no no! These aren't it!


Ah! I have it.......friends.

A group, a communion, a combination


Of people with the same interests,


The same abilities, morals, background.


Surroundings and situations bind them


In a miniature hole wrapped in a rope


Which can never be ripped apart


By neither man nor object.


They are placed in a state,


A composition, a union


That keeps them together.


This is called friendship

Friendships arrive, are kept,


Shared and treasured.


Many strive to stumble upon,


To have and to hold onto


Something as precious


As a genuine, hard core friendship.


However, they rarely exist
And many do not possess them

Most friendships that are there


Are merely there for convenience


For social comfort, for acceptance.


Some are merely for material gains:


Money, power, goods.


Then there is the deadliest,


Most brutal and vicious one of all.


This one has hurt, crushed, dispatched


The lives of those unfortunate...


Unfortunate to be forced


To endure its venom.


Name-the toxic friendship.

This friendship is so false,


So evil, so heartless


That it internally murders people.


Toxic friendships are not seen,


Not easily discovered, not outspoken.


They're so concealed,


One can never see them.


Until it is too late.

At first you don't see it


It acts as a normal friend,


Inviting those ignorant victims in,


Then when it's achieved its goal


It invisibly attacks the victims


And leaves them scarred.

The first attack- the charity bargain.


Using their lack of income and material gains


repeatedly,


Only calling on a 'friend' when help is needed


To trick the victim into giving in


Then abandoning that same 'friend'


When times are very tough.

Second attack-the two timers


Showing incredulous adoration for someone


Then when the person is away,
They rip the person apart


Piece by piece by piece


With cursed words and making fun


Of that person's flaws.

The third attack-the hypocrite


Pretending to be these perfect human beings


Whilst pointing out the faults a friend


Without noticing their own mishaps.

The last attack-the verbal bully.


This type will treat the person


As if that person is nothing


But a miniature


Drifting into the wind.


Verbalising every hurtful,


Spineless opinion about that person


While internally, they are putting


A dagger through the person's soul.

There are those friendships which last


They are solid and genuine,


Pieced and moulded as one.


But, there are those friendships,


Those friendships which do break away.


They cannot be pieced together


They can never be repaired.


They are like mirrors.


Once they are broken,


The cracks can't be placed together.

Ending a friendship is not simple.


Knowing that the connection


That very first connection


Which binds people together is gone


Can be troubling on a person.


It is a piece of art created


By more than one person


However it has deteriorated


And turned to ash.


Its meaning is truly, utterly lost.


Friendships that hurt,
Friendships that die


Friendships that fade.

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