I hate the stupid idea that poetry and the media portray that it's the fault of the person who doesn't love you back. Do you know how much pressure that is. Sometimes there are reasons someone doesn't love you back. When I feel that someone isn't appreciating me or loving me, no one is at fault. You can't force someone to have feelings and you can't call someone a terrible person because they don't feel the way you do. If someone has feelings for someone else, leave. them. alone. and. let. them. love. It's fucking hard, yes, but if you aren't happy for the person you love, you don't truly love them. You're allowed to feel sad or disappointed but you cannot get mad and you cannot say you hate the person for loving someone else. You have to accept that you are wasting your time on someone who does not love you. And if you are a person who will go around blaming that person and spreading rumours or putting words into their mouths, you have to realize you are breaking this person apart and you. need. to. stop.
You're also allowed to still crave the love and you're allowed to feel disappointed but you cannot be mean to the person. Do not purposely make them feel bad if they didn't purposely not love you. Love is a fucking connection and to force it is stupid. Love is a chemical reaction and forcing it is like forcing explosive chemicals to mix. It's dumb and dangerous.
