Dhage -Rishto Ki Masoom Dor(Sumedh Mudgalkar) #Sumedhfiction #Ritika

Author's Journey

There are few things which I want to share with my readers.

Maine aaj se 5 month pehle ye story start ki thi, but ye story likhne ka idea 2 years pehle aaya tha. 2 saal pehle bhi mere paas koi planned story nhi thi, aur na hi 5 months pehle.

Mere paas tha to baas ek dialogue, "Logo ke zindagi mein yaadein hoti hai, pas meri to yaado mein hi puri zindagi basti hai."

Jo mostly sabhi nein ignore kri. But, trust me, mere paas sirf ye ek dialogue tha, aur sirf is ek dialogue ki wajha se maine puri book likh di. Mujhe abhi bhi yakeen nhi ho rha ki, Dhage khatam ho gyi hai.

Last chapter update karne se pehle, bahut daar tha mere dil mein. Ki, kya main title ka matlab apnein readers ko samjha payunggi ya nhi, sad ending shi hai ya nhi, sabka reaction kaisa rhega, aur bhi bahut kuch.

Par, kisi ki importance sirf usse duur rehne ke baad pta chalti hai. Sumedh ko apni galati ka ehsaas karwane ka lea, aur title ka matlab smjhane ka lea, ye ending zaruri thi.

Main ye book, likhte samay bahut kuch seekha. Priority ke baremain, relations ke baremain, jo maine ek hadh tak share bhi kiya.

Mujhe nhi pta ki, mere readers kuch sikh paye ya nhi. Kuch samhaj paye ya nhi. Ya phir sabhi shabdo mein hi ulhaj kar reh gye.

But, main sirf ek baat bolna chahunggi, "Jo iss book ko samhaj gya, samjho rishto ko bhi samhaj gya."

I also wanna share some thoughts with my regular readers (who read my all books). As, everyone knows that I love to share some message or knowledge through my stories.

So, sit back and listen.

Our life is divided into 5 stages, in which we have/had to face many problems and learn new things :

Stage First : Birth
In this stage, we will/would learn that life is not easy, because our harsh society has made so many rules and regulations to destroy our happiness. A girl has to face so many problems, because of these rules and some innocent boys have to face problems, because of the mind set of people.

The problems, and how to deal with them, is explained in my book : 'Perfect Stranger'.

Stage Two : Friendship
This stage is very sensitive. Because, we are unaware of the meaning of the friendship, priority and relationship. We can't differentiate between these. Or, we are unaware of the power of Dhage, which holds these things.

The meaning of friendship, relationship, and what should be our priority is explained in my book : 'Dhage, Rishto ki masoom dor'.

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tage Three : Relationship/Commitment
This will be the most romantic stage of your life, if you found your love, knows the meaning of friendship and priority, and learned how to deal with your problems. You just have to apply your experience which you grabbed from previous stages of your life. Still, this stage is not easy, because in this you have to fight with a new problem, EGO. This word could end a long term relationship with a second.
But, absence of this word could harm you more.

How to handle a relationship is explained in my book : 'My First Love'.