Random Thoughts

DON'T WASTE HIS TIME

You met a guy who was really interested and serious about being in a relationship with you, he's not just some random guy looking for one night stand nor is he looking to play with your heart. He's a perfect guy who is ready to be with you and to be a blessing from God to your life. But you decided to show your naivety and stupidity by playing hard to get. He did everything in his power to prove and convince you that he's not in your life to play games, he's convinced within him that you were the right woman for him. So you decided to delay his request/proposal in the name of testing his patience even though you felt the same way about him.

And here was another lady who has been looking up to God for a man she'll spend the rest of her life with, she has been hurt by various guys that only made empty promises of love and affection to her but they ended up leaving her brokenhearted. But as a strong and determined woman she is she never gave up the hope of finally meeting the man that will truly love and appreciate her without any form of hypocrisy. Fortunately, this lady happened to be your best friend, she saw the way you've been treating that guy without any regard for his person and feelings because you are trying to play hard to get, thinking he got all the time to wait for you if he's serious about you. This lovely and caring friend advised you about your nonchalant attitude towards this guy but you refused to listen to her because you are too dumb to face reality.
This guy was getting tired and fed up with your childish behavior and he decided to give you a break to figure yourself out and do the needful thing to either reject or accept his proposal so that he can move on with his life. He became acquainted with your best friend, the one that has been trusting God for a perfect man for her. He told her he's not happy with the way you've been treating him, she affirmed that and also told him how she has advised you concerning the situation but it seems like you are being on being stubborn.
They got along very well, they had fun with each other as friends, they even shared their personal experiences with each other, and before we say JACK they are now passionately in love with each other. They made their deep feelings known to each other without pretending and they decided to date each other without informing you because you've paved into oblivion. You now noticed that the guy that was chasing you upandan is now passionately in love with your best friend without your knowledge. And you are now wondering what must have happened to the love he proclaimed to you earlier, but you've forgotten that you are not the only woman in the world that deserves true love and affection. You are now here ranting "MEN ARE SCUM" and making stupid thread about how your best friend betrayed you without admitting your stupidity and naivety of toying with the feelings of a perfect gentleman, because you don't deserve him.
Anyway, I'm happy the two lovebirds met each other through your carelessness. You now see that God works in a mysterious ways and you are one of the perfect examples. I just hope you've learned from your mistake or else you are bound to make another one very soon.
Real men don't chase the cookie only, we are chasing the whole jar filled with tasty cookies that can last us a lifetime.
Cut the crap and do the needful.

Peace!!!

Akinkuade Oluwadare Tobi 2017©

Special shoutout to my beautiful friend tentimileyin for the cover picture of "Random Thoughts", I love it that's why I don't want to change it. So pardon me for disobeying you.
And shoutout to Omoope1999 I'm now reading your story "Second Chances" I'm already enjoying it, I'm sorry if I seem too slow in reading.
And also shoutout to SadetuAtiti keep doing great!!!