Another true but usually hidden realization, is when you are broken hearted, they're also broken hearted.
So don't just love - love right.
We all know that in 20's we meet a lot of people - including those one who want a bigger role in our life.
They say that in our lifetime, we will experience three kind of love.
The first one, is the puppy love, where all the fairytales happens. This love is so meaningful because in this love - everything about you is raw. Like, everything is your first time.
The second love is the kind of love where you learnt a lot of thing about yourself and in relationships. This is the love between the end of your fairytales assumptions and reality journey. You will learn how to handle a lot of realistic situations and somehow learn how to be alone. Sadly, these love unfortunately don't survive for most of us.
The third love is they call the "right love." This is the love that will make you understand why the 2nd one didn't make it. This is the love that they say you will not expect. The love in the time that you already understand the cycle of life, and you have the courage to survive in that - including with your someone.
BUT the thing is, a lot of people nowadays already experienced 7 love but didn't meet the right love. And if you are the type of person who is open in your family, ideally they will meet that 7 love, and 7 love means 6 heartbroke and that means many sleepless night, day swithout appetite and months that you are scared in a lot of new people..
BUT that also means, your family can't talk to you properly.. The first night that you are brokenhearted, you can expect that your mom already discovered it.
That also means, not joining the family in more than one bonding, and staying in your room for months.
Believe me, they can sense that your sad.. Lonely. But hardly talk to you about that because they think if will make you more lonely or becase they had chosen to respect your privacy.
The bottomline is, love right.
In 20s you'll realise this. That the more you failed in relationships, the more they will be concern to you. Of course, no one want an unplanned pregnancy - especially with a jerk.
And you'll also realize that they will he happier if you got married in the right person.
Love right.
BINABASA MO ANG
7,000 WORDS REALIZATIONS
Teen FictionRank #4 in List 90% English. And this is really 10000 words. Somehow, when we got in our 20's we felt like we're already old. With all that responsibilities and obligations we felt like we already experienced life. But no. Not yet. Maybe not at all...
