People always think that marriage is a beautiful box
With everything inside that they could ever need
This is a common misconception
When you enter into marriage, the box is empty
You as a couple need to put things in, in order to take things out
Sexual satisfaction doesn't just come, it is something to be worked at
This is also true about romance, peace and everything else
You as a couple must learn each other's strengths and weakness
You need to also realise that marriage is a work in progress
Patience and Respect go a long way in ensuring you get things right
It might take some time, so instead of sulking enjoy the journey
And most importantly do not lose sight of the main objective:
Being a blessing in each other's lives
28/02/2007