Binibining Makata

Speech about Love

I fell inlove in the age of 12 years old.
So young and flirty right ?

I got a first boyfriend when I was elementary,which is grade six. And We've only last in 1Day !

Then Grade Seven, I took the chance to grab another suitor using my beautiful and exotic face, but we also only last after a week.

Then before I turn in grade 8 which is the Day of our recognition. Again, I use  my charming eyes and beautiful face to make a man fall inlove with me.
And we've been together at most 1 year and 4 months. But yes, Our relationship last and became faded.

So why I'm telling this to all of you?
Why I keep telling the guys that enters into my life?

Why I telling how they last or how the relationship last long ?

Well, its only because basically,People fall in love at many stages. However, there is one certain stage in our life when we think that everyone seems to want love , and That is the stage of what we called the Teenage love. Nowadays, most of the teenagers spend their time searching for their Mr. or Mrs. Right, or maybe a perfect partner. But we didn't even recognize in our stage and age that Teenagers are not yet matured enough to handle the whole things that the real relationship requires. Also, teenage love distracts teenagers fulfilling their responsibilities in school and even in their life. we didn't realize that love can be mistaken as a physical attraction by teenagers leads them to more serious problems.

Teenagers think that if they handle their relationships like adults they will be considered matured but yet they're wrong. It is important for teens to know how they should act based on their age so that they will enjoy their youth.
I'm not saying this because Im bitter or experienced in a strong and unpleasant way because of unfair treatment. I'm just saying this to make you realize that love is not only about keeping up with the trend, its not only about kisses,hugs, care or time. It is about maturity and responsibilities.
It's normal to show an affection or love to someone, it's normal to enter in a relationship even in our young age,  but saying that you're ready and matured enough to handle a real relationship in a very young age is not normal.

I do believe in love, and yes I'm Inlove.

My only point is don't ruined your life because of it, because love can wait. If you are now one of the teens that experienced love in their young age, its okay, it's normal but don't be serious about it,
Don't give yourself a limitations because of your boyfriend or girlfriend.

Just Hang out with your friends, do what ever you want to or move like an ordinary person,
Also don't spend a lot of time with the person you love, give yourself a space and time,
and dont give all the love that you have, give yourself a little.

If your partner left you because of this reasons, then let him or her go. It only means that they're not matured enough for this kind of love .it only means that its not a real love .

So what shoukd we d0?

How can you possibly love in your young age without ruining your life ?

Well,All you have to do is

Just enjoy you life, take your time, you're still young, you still have a meaningful journey to take. Just Find yourself first. But Take note, DON'T ABUSED THEIR GOOD DEEDS AND DON'T GRAB THAT BIG OPPORTUNITY TO CHEAT.

I,myself experience and doing this stuff and I also let him do the same too but I don't cheat and maybe he do the same too. so What's the result ?well, we've been together since 2016 without ruining our life and maybe its because we behave like a matured person and we prioritize our study more than our relationship.
If you will do this, you can be much more ready when you enter in adult stage of life, you can be more matured and responsible in the things the you will do.

And If you will do this, you can find your true love easily without ruining your life .Just always remember that everything will comes to you at the right time. Just be patient, because life teaches you that you need to make a decision in the right time-- not too early, not too late because the best relationship are the ones you never saw coming.