—FIRST OFF—
Thank you so much for getting this book to nearly 1.5k!! When I started this book I never thought that it would get this far, I mean, I'm not a good writer and I'm not popular, so my hopes didn't start too high. You guys have made me so happy and so much more of a confident writer and a much more confident person!
I've gotten this information off of -
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/valley-girl-brain/201504/the-four-types-attraction
There is an attraction pyramid, which may not be true for all of you guys but it is a common base.
Status and health are the two base elements
Status being- who you are, are you able to contribute to society in a good manner.
And health being- are you physically sound, can you support yourself and your partner. You also have good hygiene (bathe and take care of yourself regularly).
The next tier is emotional
In my opinion this is an extremely important tier that your partner comes with.
~You should be able to trust them and comfort them, in return they should show you the same things.
They should have the ability to make you and others feel comfortable around themThey need to be unique, a quote this site uses is "That special 'je ne sais quoi' that makes us 'us'."
You should be able to figure them out, it's boring to know them fully, there isn't any mystery you can find in them!
The last tier is Logic.
We usually tend to figure this one out later in the relationship, this tier consists of things such as common "wants" such as,
-family
-marriage
-children
-place to live
And others such as those. Now, what I have explained isn't always true to everyone but is is a common base for relationships. I hope you have enjoyed this part, and comment what else I should do for this story! If you want to check out this website, here is the link once more.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/valley-girl-brain/201504/the-four-types-attraction
Thank you!
-Clae Andromeda
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