Well for me personally I don't really have the best track record with actually fully getting over a man. I'll tell you how I attempt it though. 99% of the time I have a crush on a friend that is usually straight. So that's my first problem. I want to keep being friends with that said person, but how can you get over someone if you're with them everyday and texting like nothing has changed? Nothing has changed for them but for you everything is different. You want to move on and quit obsessing so you ignore them... and then delete all the photos of them off everything. (Deleting all the photos is definitely the hardest part.... and very time consuming) After you discovered you can go a few hours without snapping or texting them you get more ballsy and just ignore them or try too. You don't want it to be so obvious that you're cutting them out because eventually the goal is to keep the friendship. Sometimes that doesn't work and it is best for you to just yeet that friendship out the window for your mental health.
Now if you do succeed and are able to be friends with that person again, don't fall down the rabbit hole and become in love again. You didn't put yourself through all that struggle just to end up back where you were. You're strong and you can do anything. You really can. People that say you are only capable of doing so much never really put their heart into something. You CAN do this.
This entry is mostly to remind myself that it's okay to hurt and be a little bitch for a few days, but I'm much better than that and can move on from even the cutest straight boy.
Wish me luck
Xoxo Kurtis
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