🌸Saying NO and declining to anyone is definitely okay.
Ang ramot mo naman!
Akala ko ba may pera ka? Bat ayaw mong magbigay?
Bat ayaw mong manlibre?
Nagi guilty kaba kapag minsan hinihingian ka ng tulong pero you're saying no?
If you have a valid reason to decline. Don't be.
If you have a goal trying to achieve kaya ka nag dedecline. Don't be.
Do you wonder why most of the parents in USA are encouraging their sons and daughters to move out and make decisions on their own with their lives when they turn eighteen?
It's because, they wanted their child to start growing, to make independent decisions and face their consequences with their choices. They are not obliged to give their parents anything lalong lalo na ang mga kamag anakan nila. If they help, mabuti. If they don't, hindi nila iniisip na masama ang ugali o maramot. They are happy of their achievements in life. They aren't sour graping.
If you are on your twenties and trying to build your life, trying to achieve your dream house or trying to fulfill your dream vacation, it's okay to say NO.
Focus on your goal.
This is for yourself.
When the time comes na stable kana at nakamit mo na ang mga pinapangarap mo sa buhay, you can start helping those people you wanted to help.
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