As opposed to your Outside Woman, almost everything is different for her. If we were to liken your outside woman to a subject of your court, at your, the King's beck and call, subservient to all your needs, then your primary woman is your Queen, blessed to be by your side, and your exalted empress on a pedestal.
Good cheating demands that your primary is most precious to you. She is the one lied to when the question about, who does a man love more, the woman he tells the truth, or the one who he lies to, arises.
Your relationship with your Primary is unconditional, or at least you hope it will go there...marriage. But your relationship with the outside woman is transactional, because realistically, there is no real hope of a successful marriage with them, since your relationship was born in lies, and will eventually be consumed by lies and mistrust.
I know this is going to sound harsh, but Outside women are just whores to men, and although their prices vary, they will be nothing more. And if your counter is, 'men want a lady in public and a whore in bed', then I have even worse news for you. The reality is that we really don't want that. Ask any man who has been married for more than seven years, and if he's honest, he will tell you, men don't want to think of their wives as a whore, under any circumstances. Throw in a couple of kids, and the thought that the woman who you want to swallow your cum ,is using that same mouth to kiss your kids, on the lips, before they head out to school, and the separation of lady in public, whore in bed duality seems even crazier.
This is why most marriages fizzle out sexually, the longer it goes, throw in children and you are doomed to a hell of mediocre, sparse sex, that impacts negatively on all your relationships; wife, kids, family and friends. So going out there and cheating, being a real man, doing what millions of years of evolution insist that you do; actually brings joy and vigour to all your relationships.
Cheating is not only about you and your happiness; it's about everyone and theirs as well. Pay attention to this. And as I said in the first part of the book – the longer you say something – the more believable it becomes – even to you.
Enough of the theatrics; let us refocus on your primary woman. Queen; that is what your primary must be.
PAY HOMAGE TO THE QUEEN
THE RING
How many movies have we seen, where the cheating husband, just before he meets, or attempts to meet an outside woman, takes off his wedding ring?
Those movies are written by people who want you to feel guilty about your cheating. They do that because they are trying to create appropriate drama to make a connection with the audience. An excellent storytelling technique. But remember, you want as little drama in your activity as possible, so this is clear evidence that you do the opposite.
Never take off your wedding band. Wear it as a badge of honour, a symbol of some woman's choice of mate; a clear sign of your skill and prowess as a man.
Apart from paying the appropriate respect to the primary, the ring has magical powers to protect you from drama. It acts as a filter that weeds out all those women who have issues with, OPP - Other People's Property, to quote Naughty By Nature. There are a group of women who won't cheat and won't be a party to cheating under any circumstances. It is our duty to leave this group as untouched as possible.
Don't worry, there are plenty left, and those that are left, immediately understand your intentions, and their role, even if they don't like admitting it to themselves. There choosing to mess with a 'ringed' man sends a clear signal, that allows you to clearly segue into the "Rights of an Outside Woman".
