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Now without further ado let's get started.
Now today we'll discuss the matters of self respect.
First of all, when I looked it up:
Meaning;
Self respect is defined as holding yourself in esteem and believing that you are good and worthy of being treated well. An example of self respect is when you know you deserve to be treated right and, as a result, you do not tolerate others lying to you or treating you unfairly.
Having self-respect helps others to see and treat you with dignity and worth. Often the backbone of self-respect is knowing your values and living by them. Having self-respect often means that you need to stand by your character and be willing to defend your values and actions.Now self-respect is an important part of the human character and without this a person doesn't know their own worth, can't understand whats right and wrong for them, has problems standing up for themselves. And people who are low on self-esteem (respect) are likely to suffer their whole lives.
Again like every other good trait this one is also built on one's will and not passed on at birth.
How do you build your self-esteem?
The first step is to observe. Observe yourself, your surroundings, the people and see what is your fault and what are other's. And how will you know your fault? Well ask your conscience. Cause what most people forget is that your conscience warns you only if you listen to it. If you make mistakes, it's fine, just try to correct them see why you made them. Not everyone is perfect, having flaws is okay but problems that are holding you back ? No. But if you're as clumsy as me then don't bother, cause you'll trip on the clear and smooth floor anyways, No matter how hard you try not to.😑😅 Just kidding you'll get smarter someday 😉
The second step is to stand up for yourself. Yes you stand up for yourself, doesn't matter how long you've stayed quiet, no matter how long you've been pushed around you will stand up from today. And by fighting for yourself I don't mean fighting like an idiot observe your situation and take sensible and cleaver steps to solve your problem and for that you need to observe like I mentioned before. If you're being bullied then inform your family or the school authorities, if that doesn't work sharpen your tongue, don't use violence unless needed, use your arguments to get your point across that you are not to be messed with. Don't let anyone mistake your kindness for your weakness and your respect for your fear (if some bish copies the second half of this line then I'll throttle them) . Be kind and respectful but know your rights and live by them. Just cayse you've never fought before doesn't mean you shouldn't there's a first time for every thing.
These are my ideas to increase self-esteem or respect.
Now this doesn't relate to the topic but it was the most important teaching coming from my mother dearest who is the reason why I am who I am.
I was three when I entered school and I was the smallest one from all the kids so therefore an easy target. I was bullied and always stood up for myself to this day I do and I try to never let anyone walk over me cause when I was five, I wanted to give up standing up for myself thats when my mum told me:
"Darling never and I repeat never bow down to injustice even if you're the only one standing up, you will stand strong, I raised no coward, go and fight for your rights, raise your voice and don't just cry and let your tears be in vain."
Yea and these words said by her have been the fuel to my ambition to this day. So you see there is no problem in changing for the best. Also it's so true that's words cut deeper than knives cause my moms words left a huge impact on me and am forever grateful to her. So if you can then give someone some good advice and it will return to you.
The reason why I wrote on self-respect is because its every human gift to cherish, and people, especially women often times burn their own respect. And why am I indicating this part to my fellow ladies? Well cause the sad truth is that women are mostly abused by the hands of the members of their own sex. Mothers teach their daughters that study all the time but don't use it go marry a rich man, be a gold digger and such his money, cause whatever he does to you doesn't matter you have to stay with him. Father's teach their sons to never take care of their wives or girlfriends causes well taking care of your wife makes you unmanly? It make them simps?
Now thats what I wanna know? Mothers, what in world are you teaching you daughters? You're teaching them to be a gold digger?
Fathers, what in the world are teaching your sons, to be abusive? You're teaching them to be violent in the name of manly?
Anyways let me end my rant with
#girlsunite #boysunite
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Thats all for today people hope you're all have an awesome rest of your day and stay safe
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