Girls Guide To Relationships II

Tess

Tess:My name is Tess and I've got an issue.

Me: What's up, Tess?

Tess: My crush, his name is Dakota, has a girlfriend, but this is not the issue at hand. His girlfriend is kind of slutty and flirts with everybody and has done things with other guys while in the relationship and he just found out, but they're still together. He also saw pictures of her and another guy flirting with each other. He doesn't seem to care that she has basically cheated on him.

Me: Well. He might be the accepting type, do you KNOW that he doesn't exactly care?

Tess: He was kind of upset at first but forgave her within the hour. So it seems to be so.

Me: Hm, well. How long have they been together?

Tess: 2 1/2 weeks

Me: Oh, yeah. Then I agree. Well....his self respect is low, I can tell. I think he might be scared of being alone though..

Tess: I like him a lot and I can't seem to get it to my heart that he obviously doesn't like me back and I should move on.

Me: Well how do you know that?

Tess: He always seems to find a reason to leave when I'm around.

Me: That can be anything, don't make something small into something big. It could be he's so shy around you so he leaves.

Tess: That's possible but I doubt it. It just doesn't seem like that's the case.

Me: So what's your question?

Tess: How do I let him know that there is better than her out there? Girls that are loyal?

Me: Well do you have a sort of relationship with him?

Tess: I would qualify it as friendship but I never hardly talk to him.

Me: What grade is this btw?

Tess: We just got out of 8th.

Me: Oh, hmm. Well I think that you should take the upper hand and approach him first, ask him to hangout. Then casually bring up his relationship. & let him know what you think. He may get angry though, because people dont take kindly to change.

Tess: That's a good idea! Thank you!