Love? an intense feeling of deep affection. I never shared my opinion about love because, I don't have the reason to do so. I have been attached to a lot of guys in my past and I mistook some of those as love and yeah, I'm talking about romantic love. But that's not the point here, most people spend their life searching for that one true love without assurance if they will ever find it. Some experienced being broken for unsure feelings, playing games, rebounds, immature and selfish love. And we are all a victim of love, be it puppy love, first love and true love.
What is puppy love? first love? or true love? they are all love so what makes them different from one another? is that a process? that I have to experience puppy love first then the first love and the the last? and how would I know if it's true love? and to answer it all, see the next paragraph!
PUPPY LOVE
Puppy love is generally an intense, young love when things are new, and everything in the partnership seems great. YOU LOVE THEM NOW, YOU LEAVE THEM LATER. The focus of puppy love is on feelings (usually your own)– which can change quickly without explanation.
FIRST LOVE
First love is more likely to be experienced as unique and perfect, with an emphasis on togetherness, sharing, and communication. First love is characterized by idealism, innocence, emotional connection, reciprocal involvement, orientation to the future, and desire for a pervasive presence of the loved one. MORE REALISTIC but NEVER LASTED. Most of our first love doesn't usually last. This is the moment where you are willing to experience all your first with him/her but sometimes fate won't favor in you. On my part, I chose to let go of my first love and now he found his one true love , and it was not me.
TRUE LOVE
I don't know how to define this one. I never meet him nor encounter this feeling. I'm still trapped in my past. All I know is that, this is the love where you are willing to take the risk and stay with that person through their ups and downs. Both of you want to compromise and will always choose each other because for you, LOVE is a CHOICE. True love is a unique and passionate bond that connects you as a couple that wants the best for the other person regardless of what that means for them. It is the foundation for a healthy, loving relationship. True love is authentic and genuine
And anyone wanted that. Some are just lucky to find their true love and some are still searching for it. I don't know if I ever find someone again but one thing is for sure, LOVE is a GIFT. A gift that money can't buy.
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RandomWriting is the best way to share your thoughts and experiences. I made this to avoid anxiety or any mental illnesses. I also wrote my experiences for me to look back at it. Have fun and God bless.
