(my apologies for not making another one I don't get on here much)
My bf we'll call him Leonard says I'm nonchalant bc I don't care what he does and things like that. But he doesn't seem to understand I was that way until I had to keep reminding him "tell me when ur about to leave" "tell me when we can't talk" and things like that and he only did once and then he just apologizes but he always brings up the fact that i told him to tell me yet he never does so apparently I started becoming nonchalant towards him. It kinda hurts bc he calls me that so much but he was since the beginning of the relationship bc he thought I was with others bc of one of his friends said that to him. He barely texts me and when I text him I have to wait 1-5 hours or a whole day and a half to get a reply and then if I "reply late" I end up having to wait longer for a text.
It's a bit difficult being told that u are nonchalant when u show how u feel around people that are in ur circle ig if u wanna say. And he kinda is so I show it but he never sees it and just thinks it's a show or something. No matter what u say nothing seems to get through until a fight happens. But it is life so it's just something to do and move on with, with or without the person bc some people u have to move on without bc of how they effect u and treat u. If they love you at all they shouldn't hurt u, yes fights will happen but hurting u shouldn't and it always goes for either person not just one
