AITA? Reaction

14. Snapping at 4 years old daughter.

AITA for snapping at my daughter (4F) for sucking up when it felt like she was just doing it to antagonize her brother?

She is... 4... YTA.

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AITA for snapping at my daughter for sucking up when it felt like she was just doing it to antagonize her brother?

I (32M) took my wife (29F), daughter (4F), and stepson (4M) to Disney. My daughter lives in Florida with her mom (we live out of state), so she's been to Disney before. On the drive to Disney from where we live, she talked nonstop about the Dumbo ride. A lot of Dumbo. She hyped Dumbo up A LOT, so my stepson was extremely excited, to put it lightly.

We got to the park and went straight to Dumbo, but the wait was kind of long.

All the cue are long, especially in the main attraction.

(Not sure if this one is, cause I only went to Disneyland Paris).

We said we'd do other things with shorter lines, come back to check the wait, and then just go when it dies down.

It won't work.

We went and rode all of the other kids things, got lunch, ya know - did the day, but the ride time at Dumbo just kept getting longer.

No shit.

Finally at the end of the day, we knew we were going to just have to just deal with the line, which was still longer than the beginning of the day. Bad call on our part, obviously. So we wait. And wait. And finally get to the top of the line, where there's the Must Be This Tall sign. Clearly the kids aren't tall enough to ride on their own,

But they can still ride. So what's the big deal?

but because my daughter had hyped it up so much, my stepson wanted to ride with her. We told him he couldn't. He absolutely lost his shit. He was exhausted and understandably upset. My wife said she would take her son, but warned me that they were picking the color first. I laughed because it was such a nonsensical request, but said ok.

You don't seem very fun.

My daughter and I got in the Dumbo ahead of theirs, my stepson still screaming and crying. My daughter kept pushing the button so we would go up and down,

I'm not completely understanding how it works, but now I want to try it 😭.

and overly sweetly saying things like, "Isn't this fun, Daddy?" and "I'm having the best time!"

"Overly sweetly" she's 4 💀.

Meanwhile, my stepson hasn't pushed the button a single time, so they're just riding around on the very bottom; my wife pissed, and my stepson throwing a fit.

He's not pushing the bottoms because he's still upset because he could ride with his sis?

Why isn't your wife pushing them? And why is she pissed exactly?

Maybe this should have been funny, but it just pissed me off. It felt like she was being so overly sweet, as if to show off that she wasn't doing what my stepson was doing.

Oh god!

SHE'S FUCKING FOUR!!!!!

I snapped at her to stop sucking up and she stopped saying anything.

Man WTF?!

You absolutely piece of shit.

AITA for snapping at my daughter for sucking up when it felt like she was just doing it to antagonize her brother?

YTA! And a big one! Gosh...

Do you even like your daughter?

Dude is trying convince people in the comments that daughter is manipulative and that it is his ex wife fault. (Sure buddy 🙄).

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