X-Men Preferences and Imagines

Young Erik Lehnsherr SFW Alphabet

A = Affection
Erik isn't overtly affectionate in public. His past has made him guarded, so his displays of affection are often subtle—like resting his hand on your back or giving a small smile that only you can decipher. In private, though, he's intense. He might press his forehead to yours or trace patterns on your skin, as if he's memorizing you. His affection is shown more through actions than words.

B = Best friend
Erik as a best friend is fiercely loyal. He would protect you with everything he has and stand by your side, even if he doesn't always say it outright. The friendship might start from a shared experience, perhaps something painful or intense that creates a strong bond. Over time, he'd reveal his vulnerable side only to a trusted friend, and the friendship would feel more like family.

C = Cuddles
Erik doesn't strike as a big cuddler initially, but over time, with someone he trusts deeply, he'd grow to crave that closeness. His cuddles are firm and secure, the kind where you feel shielded from the world. He likes to hold you close, resting your head against his chest, savoring the calm moments where everything feels safe.

D = Domestic
Domesticity isn't Erik's first instinct. He's driven by his mission, his need for justice and vengeance, but with the right person, he'd eventually see the appeal. Settling down would be a significant step for him, one he wouldn't take lightly. He might dream of a quiet life, but it would always come with the internal battle between peace and his need to fight for mutantkind.

E = Ending
If Erik had to break up with someone, it would be out of necessity, not desire. He would feel like he's protecting you from his dangerous life. His breakup would be cold and distant, with him pulling away to avoid causing more pain. He might leave without much of an explanation, convinced it's for the best, though it would weigh on him heavily.

F = Fiancé(e)
Commitment is hard for Erik because of his past and his constant fight for justice. But when he's all in, he's fully committed. He wouldn't rush into marriage—it would be something he'd ponder for a long time, weighing the risks. Once he decides, though, he'd want it to be a private and personal affair, not flashy but deeply meaningful.

G = Gentle
Erik can be gentle, but it's something that takes time to come out. Physically, he's precise, careful with his touch, especially when showing affection. Emotionally, gentleness is rarer, but when it surfaces, it feels like a gift—he'll be soft-spoken, show vulnerability, and offer a tenderness that contradicts the hardness of his exterior.

H = Hugs
Hugs from Erik are infrequent but powerful. When he does hug you, it's with intensity, like he's holding onto something precious. He pulls you close and doesn't let go for a long while, often resting his chin on your shoulder. He prefers these moments to be private, savoring them quietly.

I = I love you
Erik wouldn't say "I love you" quickly or easily. It would take time, and he would only say it once he feels deeply secure in the relationship. He'd likely express his love through actions before ever uttering the words, and when he finally says it, it carries the weight of someone who's been through immense loss and suffering.

J = Jealousy
Erik is prone to jealousy, but it manifests quietly. He won't openly admit it, but you'll notice subtle changes in his behavior—he might become more possessive or cold toward others he perceives as threats. He won't lash out immediately, but he'll confront you privately, his emotions simmering just beneath the surface.

K = Kisses
His kisses are intense and deliberate, full of passion and emotion. Erik kisses like he means it, like each one could be the last. He prefers to kiss you on the lips, but he also enjoys brushing his lips against your forehead or the back of your hand, small gestures that convey deep affection.

L = Little ones
Erik is cautious around children. They remind him of his own lost childhood, and it can be painful for him to be around them. However, if he had children, he'd be a fiercely protective father. He'd teach them to be strong, but also shield them from the darkness he's experienced, wanting them to have the peace he never had.

M = Morning
Mornings with Erik are quiet and introspective. He's not a morning person, preferring to stay in bed a little longer, holding you close in the calm before the day begins. He enjoys those peaceful moments before he has to face the world, and they're often spent in comfortable silence.

N = Night
Nights are when Erik is most vulnerable. He may suffer from nightmares, haunted by his past, and when that happens, he seeks your presence for comfort. If he's feeling at ease, nights are spent with you wrapped in his arms, talking softly about the future or simply enjoying the quiet together.

O = Open
Erik takes a long time to open up. Trust is something he doesn't give easily, and when he does start revealing things about himself, it's piece by piece, like layers being peeled back slowly. It might take years before you fully know everything about him, and even then, there may still be things he keeps buried.

P = Patience
Erik has very little patience, particularly when it comes to people standing in his way or acting against what he believes in. He can be quick to anger, especially if he feels betrayed. With you, though, he tries to be more understanding, but his temper can still flare when he's under stress.

Q = Quizzes
Erik has an excellent memory, especially for things that matter to him. He would remember little details about you, from your favorite book to the way you like your coffee. He listens intently and often surprises you with how much he's retained, even things you mentioned offhand.

R = Remember
Erik's favorite moment in your relationship would likely be something quiet and intimate, like a night spent talking under the stars, or the first time you saw him for who he truly was and didn't flinch. Those moments when he feels truly seen and accepted are the ones that stick with him the most.

S = Security
Erik is incredibly protective. His past has made him hyper-aware of danger, and he'd go to great lengths to ensure your safety. He'd use his powers without hesitation if you were ever threatened, and he'd keep you close, always wanting to know you're safe. However, he would also appreciate being protected emotionally, especially from his own inner demons.

T = Try
Erik puts effort into everything he does, including relationships. He may not always show it in traditional ways, but when he plans a date or buys a gift, it's deeply personal and thoughtful. He doesn't do grand gestures often, but when he does, they're meaningful.

U = Ugly
One of Erik's worst habits is his tendency to shut down emotionally when things get hard. Instead of talking through problems, he might distance himself, thinking he's protecting you from his pain or his dangerous lifestyle.

V = Vanity
Erik isn't overly concerned with his appearance, but he is aware of how he presents himself. He knows that looking strong and composed is important, especially when leading others. He'd prefer to look sharp and composed, but it's more about how others perceive his strength than about vanity.

W = Whole
Erik has spent so long feeling broken that he wouldn't rely on anyone else to feel complete. However, being with you would help him feel a sense of balance and peace that he hasn't felt in years. He wouldn't admit it easily, but losing you would make him feel like a part of him was missing.

X = Xtra
Random headcanon: Erik has a soft spot for old vinyl records. Music is one of the few things that helps him calm his mind after a long day. He'd spend quiet evenings listening to records with you, sometimes in silence, sometimes sharing stories about why a particular song means something to him.

Y = Yuck
Erik has little tolerance for arrogance or people who abuse their power. He despises cruelty, especially toward the defenseless, and he'd lose respect for anyone who exhibits those traits. In a partner, he wouldn't tolerate dishonesty or betrayal.

Z = Zzz
Erik often struggles to fall asleep, plagued by his memories and worries. When he does sleep, it's fitful unless he's holding you. He sleeps best when he's close to you, your presence grounding him. On rare peaceful nights, he sleeps deeply and contentedly, often holding you throughout the night.