Sapience Of Life

Expectations-Failure

Day 5

When everyone seems to expect something from you and you weren't able to meet them?

It's a disappointment to them.

Living our lives, doing the things that needs to be done and must be done.
Attending classes, doing projects, passing all the exams, studying every lessons that has been lectured by the adviser/professor, etc and etc.

We cannot run from those people who has expectations for us, those people who has dreams for us, for those people who wants us to become someone else.

They say "expect the unexpected" .

Truly, but not all times.

Why?

It's because expectation leads to disappointment.

And when you're disappointed you cannot scratch the fact that you'll get hurt by it.

Those people who surrounds you ( relatives, family, friends, etc. ) believe me or not, they have plans for you, they're expecting something from you.

We often feel bothered by it, I myself personally, feel burdened. I mean not that I hate them for that, it's just that, I really dislike it when they expect something from me and in return I'll disappoint them, on my behalf it's really upsetting and not that I don't understand, I just don't want them to feel bad about it.

I also feel awful towards the things that I do that'd upset them.
I really feel burdened about it, and I dislike that feeling.

I've lived my life as a sell, not everyone around me understands, not everyone around me appreciates it but it's okay. I can't demand it from them.

They're expectations are not my quest, they're not my journey, and most of all not my end line.

They're expectations maybe of help but at least, they should also know how to expect less.

We, as people, as a human being has struggles in life.

One of those is, being expected.

Expectations is not a joke nor a prank.

It is something that, every single person who is merely related or attached to you, somewhat a dream or a goal that has been planned for you already.

They want you to be this and that.
They want you to do this and that.
They want you to take this and that.
And so on and so on and on and on and on and etc.

Surprisingly, not all of us can do that. There is this thing that we call "LIMITATIONS" .

We can't basically take it all in. We have to take it slowly to be there surely. Coz if we take it in a rush it's like putting yourself into your own trap.

Though, it's not that you must really meet their expectations.

Do you know what's more important?

It's you. It's your dreams and goals that you really want to achieve but you have to set them correctly to be there correctly.

In order for you to be on top, you must learn on how to believe in yourself. Know your capabilities. Srt your goals higher than ever. And take courage in aiming all of them.

Bashers may bash you BUT they can't stop you from living your life.

Life is a mystery. We don't know what lies ahead. So buckle up and take a deep breath and walk surely in every step that you take.

If you'll make a mistake don't let it drag you down, but let it be the reason for you to rise up and fight.

Coz God has a plan for yoy and God eants to work it together with you..