How to Fix your People Problems

Fix IT

We live in a society now that seems to be to lazy or unwilling to fix things that are broken.  It seems much easier to buy a new one or throw away what's broken rather than spend the time and energy to fix it.  Marriages, relationships, careers, educations, goals are all things we as a society give up on when they seem to be heading towards failure.  

I remember the days when something was broke people took the time to fix it.  It wasn't because they couldn't afford a new one either, or because they couldn't file for divorce from a failing marriage.  It was because they truly valued life and the things and the people in it.  It mattered enough to them that they would do everything they possibly could to fix it.  It mattered enough to them to hold onto the things they loved because they had worked so darn hard to get where they were or love who they fell in love with.  When life gives us a bad hand at anything in life we are all to quick to throw in the towel or give up too easily when a little work or CHANGE could Fix IT!  

Change, I believe that's the problem people have with Fixing things in their life when they've gone wrong or seem too hard to handle,  they simply can't handle or won't allow change.  Change is a very scary thing for a lot of people.  It is also very painful at times and can be overwhelming and unwanted.  If you want to fix your failing relationship or marriage but realize that part of fixing it means removing toxic factors that make up your everyday lifestyle then Change is the only way to Fix IT.  Don't let Change stand in your way of  Fixing IT, Whatever IT is!  No matter how scary, or uncertain your future may seem to be right now It's the only way through!  You can't go around Change, you can't escape change if you truly want to Fix the problems that you have in your life.  When you begin to change you move towards something or away from something.  If you need to go back to something to Fix it, then go back.  If you need to move towards something new or unfamiliar to Fix IT then GO!!! RUN!  Get your ass to moving!!!!!  What are you waiting for?  If not now then when will you?  

I want my readers to understand that not all things, relationships, or situations can be Fixed.  I am a realist and I know that sometimes things or relationships are not worth fixing or trying to fix them would never produce a healthy outcome.  It's ok to stop trying to fix the things in our life that either can't be fixed or are not our responsibility to fix.  It's ok to stop trying to Fix people!  I'm obviously not speaking about Doctors who fix people when their physical body needs fixing, but emotionally, spiritually and otherwise.  It's only possible to fix oneself.  Once we are willing to open our spirt up to direction and advise from fellow professionals or friends  then we are on the right path.  When we are willing to accept change as a part of Fixing what's broken in ourselves then what's fixable can be and will be Fixed.