Aquarius

Aquarius Man x Aquarius Woman

When we think about two partners in a relationship with the same sun sign, the first words that come to mind are harmony, love and peace. In the case of the relationship between an Aquarius man and woman, this may very well not be true. It could either be great love, or a complete disaster. It will not take too much effort for the Aquarius man or woman to attract each other. Both are witty personalities who enjoy spontaneous conversations. Breaking the ice will not be an issue and conversations will flow endlessly.

Both partners value their freedom. Their free spirit and outgoing nature is definitely a plus point when individual personalities are concerned, but is this a benefit in a relationship? The answer is probably no. Imagine two people who are socially very active and have a large set of friends. Multiply this by two if both partners may come from different backgrounds and may not have common friends. This relationship will be subject to higher than average human interaction and involvement. The Aquarius man and woman both have a very active social life and it is easy to get lost in the world of outings, meetings, and gatherings. The bond between the two partners has to be solid in order to bring them back to ground realities. Another typical trait, again closely related is personal space. Both partners enjoy their own personal space, physically and emotionally. They like to be on their own sometimes. This trait may even work in their advantage. Possessiveness, jealousy and other issues related to trust take a back seat because of the similar outlook towards life. Arguments and fights will be lesser than the average couple. Both partners will acknowledge each other's needs to be left alone at times. This can provide balance and stability to the relationship.

Romance levels in this relationship can vary. Without a doubt, the first few dates and period of courtship will be full of smiles and surprises. Both partners are intellectually strong and their outspokenness is like icing on the cake. But the typical Aquarius man or woman is not romantically inclined. The funny thing is that their conversations will be animated and can keep them engrossed for hours. For an outsider, this may seem very romantic and a picture perfect frame may be formed in the eyes of the beholder if the couple is spotted having a "full on" conversation on a table at the local cafe. However, this may not be felt by the partners themselves. It is very important for both partners to make an effort to keep the excitement alive in their love life. Without this, romance levels are likely to fade away. Imagine watching the sunrise on that misty morning - without that hot cup of coffee, or that romantic date - without that glass of wine, or the cosy moment on the couch - without your favourite movie.

Love relations are peaking! The Aquarius man and woman are full of energy and enthusiasm. Physical relations will be free, inventive, rewarding, and extremely satisfying. Times spent in the bedroom will be long. Both partners love the outdoors and it would not be surprising if steamy sessions inside the bedroom end up out in the back yard under the crisp moon light. Aggressiveness and subtleness are both involved in this roller coaster ride. Neither partner will be held up by nervousness or preconceived notions. They are both in for a wild ride!

Both partners are loyal when it comes to testing times in the relationship and hold a special place for each other in their hearts. However, the Aquarius woman and man tend to hide emotions. Aloof, arrogant, absent minded, you can call them anything you want - they are not bound by sentiments. Emotional intimacy will need to be forced upon on these two souls. In a committed relationship, they will happily co-exists and be best friends. They can surely be the pillar in each other's lives. Both partners will need to ensure that they spend enough time together, away from the attention of the world. They both make a great pair. Whether they can transform this strong bond into a loving, nurtured and long term relationship depends on willingness of each partner to compromise, by a bit, on the sense of freedom. It is definitely a relationship that they want to hold on for life!

Aquarius Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility

Most times when two of the same sign get together it is too much of a good thing. But not so when the Aquarius man finds an Aquarius woman. They will understand each other's special language which requires them to refer to each other as "best friends" and never anything more. Their secret code also dictates that they live together without marriage; after all, marriage is soooo conventional. I like to think of these two trying to shock each other. That's their favorite game with third parties, but I wonder if it works between the two of them. "Let me shock you." "No, here, let me shock you." "No let me slap you." "Okay, slap me. Then I'll slap you harder." And so it goes, and so it goes. Of course it's all just talk. These two are air signs and they tend to suck up all the air in the room. They can be so sure that they know everything and see everything and envision everything that has ever been and ever will be. I do wonder what they talk about very quickly.

How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as an Aquarius Man

If you're an Aquarius man trying to attract an Aquarius woman, of course you will know to give her lots of space. Aquarians have the reputation of being very friendly but they really don't like people at all, so she is likely to be alone when you encounter her. If you have crossed her path, you are likely involved in a common cause which makes the perfect entrée into a conversation. This should keep you going for the first several dates. Nothing personal, please. After that, since you're both pretending that you're not dating, you're just friends, a lot is left up in the air. You have to keep getting together, but under the pretense or guise of dating. Keep it cazs.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as an Aquarius Woman

For starters, interrupt the conversation he's having with someone else. Act like you could care less about the social context of the meeting. Show your strong individuality and your preference for mental engagement, not emotional entanglement. It's okay to be smarter than he is if you really are. Turn and walk away as abruptly as you walked over to start the conversation.

Degree of Romance

I don't think so.

Degree of Passion

Only for other species.

Degree of Friendship

For as much as they will tout their relationship as "best friends," they are probably each other's only friends as well.

Degree of Marriage

This actually works well because they live in their own world of ideals and special values. Others might consider them cold, aloof, arrogant and absent-minded, but to each other, they are Two Master Minds creating Universes together. One wonders who's doing the dishes and paying the bills, but eventually they get around to it. They would secretly be better off with step-children or adopted children so if it's heading in that direction, embrace it.

Progression of Relationship

The Aquarius man and Aquarius woman keep going back to start, because they insist that it's just a friendship which makes for an expanded consciousness between them and it allows them the space they need to co-exist happily in their universe.