Don't you love when people accuse you of shit you didn't do. Well this is exactly what happened to Matthew and I earlier this summer. I was sitting in my bedroom one night talking to Matthew as I normally do every night and then all the sudden he tells me his mother saw me post something provactive on the internet. I did not do this she had just seen it in her news feed this day. This caused me to go into panic mode and even have a slight panic attack . This happened and she was blaming me even though I was not the one to post such thing. She made me feel so bad to where I didn't even know how to feel past that point and persective. I had a very hard time sleeping that night because of this.
Then she decided to throw a fit because I tagged him in a post she took to far it was a harmless post and she flipped her shit on both Matthew and I I took this hard because it was an innocent post. Just who in their right mind does that and she didn't even consider the distance Matt and I are apart so it would make the post impossible any way so it bothered me again it was another sleepless night.
The last thing she did was I tagged he in an open letter and she called me sappy for doing it. That didn't make me feel good at all. She made me sound like I was a kiss up or was looking for attention when actually I was just reaching out to get to know her . When I heard that I immeaditly felt upset and angry. I hope one day she will accept me I know she is still trying to get used to me. But it's hard to know if I am doing anything right because she has never even said Hi,Hello .How are you doing to me and that makes me feel bad. So I hope for the best in the future that is all I can do
To put the cherry on top of the sundae when I dyed my hair the color black Matthew's parents decided to make fun of it and my culture. His mother seen it and said " Should I send her a broom now ?" Which I actually wouldn't mind because brooms in pagan culture represent sweeping away negitivity and protection. She wanted to send it to me as a sterotype. His father on the other hand wanted to send me a rock referencing the Salem witch trials and that would have been odd considering I collect rocks. Then his mother discovered what year I graduate high school and wanted to then find out the date of my grad party and then because Matthew would graduate from college that same year she would throw his party on the same day. Now I find this all to be just stupid and ignorant of them . His mother also earlier this week found a shirt while shopping that said my boons aren't small they are just fat free and she thought I would be offended by that even though I joke around about my small chest all the time and find it funny and just roll with it. Why do his parents have to act so ignorant to me and not get to know me I swear they are out to make my life a living hell. I hope karma helps me out soon or I will become karma. Which would not be hard to do become every thing they have done against me I have written down.
There are two people who keep me sane going through this and that is Matthew and extremely thankful for everything they do for me it means so much.
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The Distance of Love
RomanceThe story of a couple in a long distance relationship who have to go through a lot of social hardships to make there relationship survive. From the time they met they knew something would happen. Each and every day something new is changing and even...
