i'm gonna address some serious shit once again since some fans don't know their limits.
okay. i'm a multifandom fan. i may have faves but i love everyone equally.
on the other hand, we have people who are the opposite of me.
a one fandom fan.
let's start.
fan or not, learn to respect others. i'm not trying to be superman or anyone here. respect is the first among values you learn. from your home to anywhere.
why don't you people apply that in your daily fangirl life?
a little respect doesn't hurt anyone.
fyi, the fandom is what mirrors the group or artist itself.
let's say (hypothetically) i'm not much of a kpop fan and i want to be one. but i'm scared because the fandom i want to be in makes me scared that they would randomly attack me for something they misunderstand.
this is an example on what your attitude affects on people.
aside from that, you don't have to brag about what your fandom has achieved. yes, it's okay to be proud but not to the point where you shove it to other people's faces. it's not cool.
as i've also said in a chapter, there are do's and don'ts. respect is one of them. knowing your limits is one of them.
speaking of limits, just a head's up, your bias will marry someone who isn't you.
that's the reality that y'all have to wake up to.
yes, it hurts. yes, i said it. but it's the truth. so the next time you say that they are your husband or wife or bf or gf, think a little deeper.
as much as it's a good dream to stay in, that bubble will pop and here I am, exposing you to reality.
it's better to prepare yourself once your favorite member will date someone who isn't you.
i support idols dating no matter what. i don't see the point in making a fuss out of it. they aren't yours. they aren't a toy to own and to be possessed by you.
the reason why i'm happy for idols who are dating, secretly or not, is that they are happy. being in love gives a different glow to your face. and seeing them being happy with someone they love is making me happy for them.
to those who aren't taking the news well makes me think that they aren't happy with the thought of someone with their "oppa".
news flash, your idols will be dating and will possibly be married and settle down.
this is reality. there's no way to escape it, believe me.
aside from that, don't start shit up.
fandom wars are the worst things you can initiate and it will show a lot how you are as a fandom.
just because they are two big groups who have big fandoms doesn't mean you can fight with each other on who's better or who's dissing who.
your groups are friends why can't the fandoms reflect that? fuck views. fuck streaming mvs. fuck trophies and awards. what matters here is how y'all treat each other.
if you can't treat each other like how the two groups treat each other, then leave because those types of people disgusts people.
leave the fandom if you want to continue in being a little shit who thinks they are the shit when they aren't.
leave the fandom if your start wars on innocent fandoms, problematic or not, that's cyber bullying either way.
leave the fandom if you can't respect anyone. music tastes, fandoms, decisions, and/or everything.
leave the fandom if you can't handle the news of your "oppa" dating someone who isn't you. and continue to bash the innocent girl or boy who "stole" your "oppa".
leave because you fucking disgust me. disrespecting people, cyber bullying, and not being happy on anyone's life and controlling them as if they are property.
i'm not even kidding. know your limits because little shits like those people i mentioned, they aren't worth to be with in a fandom because toxic people spread shit far too quickly.
