I am constantly thinking about the myths of destinies. If they exist - What is the purpose of those miraculous signs? And is it supossed to be telling me something? Other than the fact that it might have never happened to me, I do think coincidences are the realistic truths behind every surreal occurence. Though you simply have to be in the right place at the right time by having a life full of choices - Everything happens for a reason right?
Thruth is: I happen to be in the right place at the wrong time (or vice versa). Honestly, my mind can be a daily confuser when it has an argument with my heart. A few days ago my heart almost exploded by meeting a special person. It just didn't hold its size long enough until my mind gave me the hint of giving up on that person (due to heartbreak, lovesickness, etc.). However - what was the coincidence and what was the destiny? Apparently, one can only know by finding the meaning in its heart. No mind will be set free to explain the distinction between it.
Yet, this was no use for me at all. No matter if it had been a coincidence or whatever, I would have given up anyway. And then we have the vicious circle again: self-reflection, self-esteem, beliefs, and so on...
Is that destiny or just a random coincidence telling you something?