Inspired by this video : https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=567456746983375&id=100011571636589
"Huwag kang humingi ng second Chance kung hindi mo kayang panindigan"
Hindi ko alam kung bakit may mga taong alam na nilang mali pero ginawa at patuloy pa rin nilang ginagawa then at the end of the day they will ask for a second chance ? We always have the choice right ? And we are old enough to know what is right from what is wrong ? But why do we always choose the wrong decision ? Maybe you are at the thought of " Take the risk" , but can we think first of the possible outcome or consequences before we decide or do something ?
The video is not about asking for a second chance because one of them cheat. I can say it's because of some attitude or characteristic of their partner that they can't hold on to. It seems that the boy has always the decision or rather he is the head of their relationship. First of all , what do you mean by a relationship ? Specifically a relationship of a man and a woman. For me, it is a form of relationship which consist of a two person, who needs to act or make a decision not just for themselves alone but for the entire relationship.
Hindi ka pwedeng pumasok sa isang relasyon na sariling comfort mo lang ang iisipin mo, na gusto mo lang when it is convenient for your own good. Isipin mo din ang partner mo dahil dalawa kayo dyan sana hindi ka na lang nakipagrelasyon kung ang gusto mo lang naman e desisyon mo ang palaging masusunod. He/She accepts you , you should too.
Based on my own experience. I really don't know why does he ask for a second chance ? Logically speaking, if your current relationship is enough for you, if you truly loves her then why did you make another relationship with someone ? Diba ? So you should choose your third party/ mistress (? HAHAHAHA) because you choose her over me . Stop telling me that your choosing me because you are asking for a second chance oh c'mon in the first place you will not be engage with her if you truly choose me.
And at some point of our life , we still give a second chance, but why does they ask for a second chance if they will not change ? Why did they ask for a second chance if they were going to continue those wrong habits. And this came up on my mind.
"Takot silang Mag isa" , yes !tayong mga iniwan hindi tayo ang takot mag isa , Sila yung tunay na takot mag isa dahil sa una pa lang na alam nila na mali yung desisyon na gagawin nila or pipiliin nila hindi nila yun itutuloy pero ginawa pa din nila and when errands came they will keep coming dahil ganun sila katakot mag isa, hindi nila kayang manindigan para sa mga sarili nila.
On the video the girl says "Mahal kita pero kailangan na kitang iwan" (not that exactly but the thought 😂) , Minsan kahit na alam natin na mahal pa natin yung tao we need to make a decision not just to save ourselves but also the person we love. Dahil kung patuloy nating silang tatanggapin para na din nating tinolerate yung mga maling gawain nila tayo mismo sa sarili na natin yung mali. Minsan kailangan nating lumayo sa kanila for them to realize yung mga maling ginagawa nila for them to build again theirself.
Lalo na kung sobrang toxic na ng relasyon mas lamang na ang away at tampuhan kaysa sa saya. I was quiet but i was not blind to see na yung dating nag uumapaw mong pagmamahal sa kanya ngayon ay bawas na bawas na , oo may love pa din pero minsan tayo na mismo yung napapagod sa pinag gagawa ng mahal natin. Gusto natin silang tulungan pero sila mismo ayaw tulungan ang sarili nila.
Siguro isang araw marerealize din nila yung kamalian nila, intindihin na lang natin na hindi man naging maganda ang ending dahil sa masakit na ginawa nila sa atin , isipin na lang natin na naranasan nating magmahal at sumaya dahil sa kanya pero hindi pala panghabang buhay siguro dahil hindi kayo para sa isat isa or hindi pa kapwa handa ang mga puso nyo.
The day that breaks you are also the day that MAKES you. ❤
A/N : thankyouuuu ❤
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A/N : natakam lang ako sa pagkain dun sa video kaya yan ang cover photo 😂 A/N : "As i looked back,nothings changed" kasi nung time na humingi sya ng chance i see no progress no actions na itama ang lahat . Sad, pero keep on going mas mahalaga makahanap ako ng trabaho HAHAHA
